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Magnate
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__________________ Be like water making its way through cracks, do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, if nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves. --Bruce Lee |
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__________________ Be like water making its way through cracks, do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, if nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves. --Bruce Lee |
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Grand Poohbah
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Oh no...please don't misunderstand. Speaking for myself, I'm very happy that you found a religion and a church that makes you happy. That can be a very powerful force in someone's life. I know it is in my own. We only sought to clarify any potential misunderstandings...that's not your fault. We only wanted to clarify. Unfortunately, in my time here, I have seen instances in which the church harms rather than helps, sad as that is. While the things you didn't didn't necessarily denote that was the case, it helps us help you to make sure that is not the case.
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Unless...Imagine that the bf does marry you. Changes his mind and marries you. In church. Would you all of sudden, by miracle, want to have sex with him for your sake, not just his sake? If yes, then for you personally the issue IS the status of the relationship. If not, the issue remains with the partner selection. |
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