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what kind of a church would want you to stop having an intimate relationship with someone who loves you? considering your background, why would you put a religion above the most important person in your life?
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judging from the reply you gave this woman, i believe that your past was filled with religious people who acted hypocritically and often condemned you, right? I'm sorry you feel that way, but do i have a problem with such people?
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i thought he loved me, but as he physically attacked me and endangered my life in the car after we were no longer sleeping together, i question whether he did. In the Judeo-Christrian religion, followers are not to have intimate relations before marriage and God is before all else abd the most important relationship before romantic love.
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Sorry, the phone. So you do not give yourslef to him against your will which is an excellent development but the reason for it had nothing to do with YOU and everything to do with the church's ideology. So the good outcome is purely coincidental. Someone - some church, T, someone needs to focus on YOU and become outraged that for five years you went through an unnecessary self-sacrifice of having intimate relations against your will. Sure women are sometimes tired and may occasionally engage in quick sex just for the sake of the guy while they'd rather be sleeping. You did something else, on a grand scale.
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Sorry, no compassion in regards to your inability to get pregnant while on psych meds.
LITHIUM has been used since roughly 1950. Antidepressants, a little less but still for many decades. Essentially, for a long time, more than enough to demand that spiritual leaders adapt to this new reality and adjust their message accordingly, taking into accounts that some of these drugs are teratogenic. |
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Unless...Imagine that the bf does marry you. Changes his mind and marries you. In church. Would you all of sudden, by miracle, want to have sex with him for your sake, not just his sake? If yes, then for you personally the issue IS the status of the relationship. If not, the issue remains with the partner selection. |
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