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Old Feb 09, 2013, 04:09 AM
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What percentage of the time do you cuddle your partner as opposed to receiving the cuddles? Also, please state whether you are male or female, or if you are in a homosexual relationship.

I'm male and my percentages are 90% giving, 10 receiving.

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Old Feb 09, 2013, 11:21 AM
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Personally, I find it very awkward and uncomfortable to be resting against him, I would much rather be holding him. I am female.
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Old Feb 09, 2013, 02:13 PM
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50/50, hetero female, both ppl cuddling at the same time.

That is now.

With ex H, I did 100%.
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Old Feb 09, 2013, 02:31 PM
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cuddle seldom to never. I'm a straight female (w/ history of SA) who is currently aggravated w/ H. But not on big cuddles even when not aggravated w/ him. Never have been big on cuddling.

Pissed off me: 5% cuddles accepted by H
Normal me 10% cuddles accepted by H
Me initiating cuddles ( mad or not mad) 0 % all the time

SA hypersensitive to touch and invasion of personal space. So I'm not really a good one to ask about that.
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Old Feb 09, 2013, 03:52 PM
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I'm a male and I can't recall a time my wife was cuddled me. I'm the one that holds her. It doesn't happen a whole lot anymore. I think the extents of our cuddles are a half dozens hugs and kisses throughout the day and I pet her when she goes to bed at the same time I do.
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Old Feb 09, 2013, 08:04 PM
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This isn't something either of us has ever thought about.
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Old Feb 10, 2013, 11:36 AM
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I'm a male and I can't recall a time my wife was cuddled me. I'm the one that holds her. It doesn't happen a whole lot anymore. I think the extents of our cuddles are a half dozens hugs and kisses throughout the day and I pet her when she goes to bed at the same time I do.
What do you mean you pet her? Like a dog?
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Old Feb 10, 2013, 12:34 PM
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What do you mean you pet her? Like a dog?
Yeah, kinda. She likes me to pet her head or play with her hair until she falls asleep. It doesn't bother me and she enjoys it so I do it.
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Old Feb 10, 2013, 01:39 PM
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My H likes to twist my hair and stroke my hair until he goes to sleep. I can let him do that. If he goes to work and takes care of theneeds of me and the kids then if you want to stroke my hair so be it. But once he's asleep I'm up and doing 3 more hours of housework and computer.
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