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Feb 25, 2013 at 05:07 PM
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I have a problem ejaculating quickly. Usually I do it without a condom and we do foreplay before and then we just do it.
Once I go in, I feel like ejaculating already. It sucks and condoms don't work that much for me. I don't know if it's anxiety or what. |
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Feb 25, 2013 at 05:22 PM
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I think there are specialized condoms that target this specific issue. Have you tried them? Desensitizing or something like that. I have never been with any man with this issue, but I have seen package advertisements of specialized condoms in drugstores. If you have not tried them, just go to your local drugstore and browse through their offerings.
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Feb 25, 2013 at 05:34 PM
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There could be a few reasons why this happens and you're correct, anxiety can trigger this sometimes. Have you always had this problem? I found an excellent page with many helpful suggestions and hopefully these will help. You can also practice holding back when self pleasuring to last longer. If none of these tips help, you can then consult your doctor - there are easy medications such as certain anti depressants that help. Try not to worry since this alone can make it worse. You can also take a brief break and then resume intercourse. Hope this resolves.
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Feb 25, 2013 at 10:58 PM
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My problem with those is that I lose it quickly if I'm using a condom like that. Also. Will look into that link for tips. If it doesn't work, ill have to to a regular doctor and find out. |
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Feb 27, 2013 at 12:41 AM
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The only advice I have is get your "Fix" before the real fun begins. Then foreplay all you and she want. By that time you will be ready again and it takes considerably longer the second time around if you know what I mean.
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