Trying to sort out feelings :/

depressedgirl · Mar 14, 2013 at 12:23 AM

he read my other posts too that's what I'm talking about is how he reacted to all of them

hamster-bamster · Mar 14, 2013 at 11:25 AM

So he did not accidentally stumbled upon OP but perused the whole long thread?

depressedgirl · Mar 14, 2013 at 12:09 PM

What does op mean?

hamster-bamster · Mar 14, 2013 at 12:21 PM

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What does op mean?

original post - the first post.

I can see him stumbling on the first post, but not perusing the long thread.

depressedgirl · Mar 14, 2013 at 02:15 PM

He came across it on my phone and then read the rest of it cause its about him

hamster-bamster · Mar 14, 2013 at 02:18 PM

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He came across it on my phone and then read the rest of it cause its about him

I understand. It is tempting to do such things, I have done such a thing because I accidentally had access. But it is still not OK to do that. So you should not feel bad. He accessed something he should not have accessed.

depressedgirl · Mar 15, 2013 at 04:01 PM

Well I don't intentionally hide things from him cause I don't like keepimg things from him so i'm not gonna like delete my history or anything.

hamster-bamster · Mar 15, 2013 at 04:03 PM

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Well I don't intentionally hide things from him cause I don't like keepimg things from him so i'm not gonna like delete my history or anything.

I am not saying you should delete your history. I am saying that if he stumbled upon a thread, he should not have perused it. It was nosy of him to peruse the thread.

shortandcute · Mar 16, 2013 at 09:18 PM

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The reason I threw up so much the other night is because I ate a lot of food at school and then left and got drunk. I ate the wrong kind of food. We have a year until the wedding date we planned so maybe I have time to do both. Idk maybe its not getting high that is the problem because I have been doing that for about 2 1/2 years. The getting drunk part is kinda iffy though because I don't get drunk as often as A LOT of people I know but I always think about it and always want to.

That's not really the point here. The point is that you are obviously tormented and unhappy; and I personally cannot understand why you want to stay with him.

shortandcute · Mar 16, 2013 at 09:22 PM

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He was hurt and upset because he didn't realize how much he was really hurting me. He said he doesn't know why I love him and he hates himself. That's why I feel bad

That has "GUILT TRIP" written all over it!!!!!

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depressedgirl Member Member Since Oct 2006 Location: Alabama Posts: 239 17	Mar 14, 2013 at 12:23 AM #41 he read my other posts too that's what I'm talking about is how he reacted to all of them __________________ "If you can't stand the music,get out of the band room."
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hamster-bamster Account Suspended Member Since Sep 2011 Location: Northern California Posts: 14,805 (SuperPoster!) 12 3,729 hugs given	Mar 14, 2013 at 11:25 AM #42 So he did not accidentally stumbled upon OP but perused the whole long thread?
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depressedgirl Member Member Since Oct 2006 Location: Alabama Posts: 239 17	Mar 14, 2013 at 12:09 PM #43 What does op mean? __________________ "If you can't stand the music,get out of the band room."
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depressedgirl Member Member Since Oct 2006 Location: Alabama Posts: 239 17	Mar 14, 2013 at 02:15 PM #45 He came across it on my phone and then read the rest of it cause its about him __________________ "If you can't stand the music,get out of the band room."
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depressedgirl Member Member Since Oct 2006 Location: Alabama Posts: 239 17	Mar 15, 2013 at 04:01 PM #47 Well I don't intentionally hide things from him cause I don't like keepimg things from him so i'm not gonna like delete my history or anything. __________________ "If you can't stand the music,get out of the band room."
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