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HellishBSterminator · Mar 16, 2013 at 10:41 AM

I am ugly and will never have any sex, or "love" in real life. I hate myself for having to masturbate all my life. What can I do to get rid of attraction and masturbation so that at least I am not a hideous piece of perverted crap? Thank you very much.

hamster-bamster · Mar 16, 2013 at 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by HellishBSterminator

I am ugly and will never have any sex, or "love" in real life. I hate myself for having to masturbate all my life. What can I do to get rid of attraction and masturbation so that at least I am not a hideous piece of perverted crap? Thank you very much.

I do not think that you are ugly, plus, ugly people do attract other people, too. Especially ugly people who are charming and confident. Plus, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

You ARE very confused. there is so much confusion that I do not even know where to begin. OK, how about:

What makes you call yourself perverted?

hamster-bamster · Mar 17, 2013 at 12:03 AM

Are you going to clarify?

Mar 19, 2013 at 09:10 PM

I feel similarly. I just stopped really feeling pleasure when touching myself. I mean, I still got good orgasms. I just stopped caring and it just became a chore I had to do to stay healthy physically and mentally. Like doing laundry or washing my face etc.

hamster-bamster · Mar 19, 2013 at 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by I.Am.The.End.

I feel similarly. I just stopped really feeling pleasure when touching myself. I mean, I still got good orgasms. I just stopped caring and it just became a chore I had to do to stay healthy physically and mentally. Like doing laundry or washing my face etc.

Be careful with analogies - while it is hard to overdo orgasms, it is very easy to overrdo washing your face. And while there are no rules about orgasms, there are strict rules about face washing. You can wash your face no more than once a day and if you use topical retinoids, you do not have to wash the skins other than the eyes in the morning.

Mar 19, 2013 at 09:47 PM

Analogies are just that—analogies. They aren't meant to be exact science. If you can think of a perfect analogy for the situation, then by all means, I would appreciate learning about it. However, if you just find the need to nit-pick my (and other people's) posts for no other reason than to point out where we made ourselves look stupid, please don't continue. I must also add, that I too have to fight the urge not to point out something that someone one else has said, so I understand. But on the other hand, I also have been afraid to post because I'm afraid of getting posts that are criticizing things that are essentially irrelevant.

So, without the analogy, I feel like doing things to myself is a chore that I have to do whether I like it or not and frequently it hurts, so apparently (for me anyway) it can be very easy to overdo.

hamster-bamster · Mar 19, 2013 at 09:56 PM

Then if it hurts why do you continue? For health benefits solely?

Mar 19, 2013 at 10:00 PM

What are health benefits of orgasm? I never felt one myself.

As far being ugly is concerned, you need to feel beautiful inside you and radiance will make others see you as beautiful.

hamster-bamster · Mar 19, 2013 at 10:01 PM

if you do it for health benefits only, then your perfect analogy would be going to the gym without enjoying it. Pretty simple. And working out can hurt you physically and you can overdo it, so it seems to fit well as an analogy to the situation you have just described.

Mar 20, 2013 at 10:17 AM

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What are health benefits of orgasm? I never felt one myself.

You could just Google it...

Google says

hamster-bamster · Mar 20, 2013 at 12:57 PM

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What are health benefits of orgasm? I never felt one myself.

As far being ugly is concerned, you need to feel beautiful inside you and radiance will make others see you as beautiful.

yes, radiating beauty and confidence is really helpful for the both the person who radiates and the people who see the rays

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HellishBSterminator New Member Member Since Mar 2013 Posts: 2 11	Mar 16, 2013 at 10:41 AM #1 I am ugly and will never have any sex, or "love" in real life. I hate myself for having to masturbate all my life. What can I do to get rid of attraction and masturbation so that at least I am not a hideous piece of perverted crap? Thank you very much.
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hamster-bamster Account Suspended Member Since Sep 2011 Location: Northern California Posts: 14,805 (SuperPoster!) 12 3,729 hugs given	Mar 17, 2013 at 12:03 AM #3 Are you going to clarify?
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Anonymous50006 Guest Posts: n/a	Mar 19, 2013 at 09:10 PM #4 I feel similarly. I just stopped really feeling pleasure when touching myself. I mean, I still got good orgasms. I just stopped caring and it just became a chore I had to do to stay healthy physically and mentally. Like doing laundry or washing my face etc.
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hamster-bamster Account Suspended Member Since Sep 2011 Location: Northern California Posts: 14,805 (SuperPoster!) 12 3,729 hugs given	Mar 19, 2013 at 09:56 PM #7 Then if it hurts why do you continue? For health benefits solely?
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Anonymous33065 Guest Posts: n/a	Mar 19, 2013 at 10:00 PM #8 What are health benefits of orgasm? I never felt one myself. As far being ugly is concerned, you need to feel beautiful inside you and radiance will make others see you as beautiful.
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hamster-bamster Account Suspended Member Since Sep 2011 Location: Northern California Posts: 14,805 (SuperPoster!) 12 3,729 hugs given	Mar 19, 2013 at 10:01 PM #9 if you do it for health benefits only, then your perfect analogy would be going to the gym without enjoying it. Pretty simple. And working out can hurt you physically and you can overdo it, so it seems to fit well as an analogy to the situation you have just described.
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