I am recently separated from my ex-h who was averagely endowed. I am now with a man with a much larger penis. The other night he got a bit bit rough and now the pelvic pain is reasonably bad. Could he have damaged something? I can't see a doctor til end of next week so asking here.

[big zero]

Happened to me too, because of an unfortunate combination of me being smaller than average and my boyfriend being slightly larger. The pain was really intense for about half an hour or so... felt like someone was stabbing me in the uterus with a barbed knife. I slept on it, then when I was confident enough to move without toppling I drew myself a warm bath. That did wonders.

How long has it been since you had sex? Is the pain still as bad? A warm relaxing bath is the only solid advice I can offer, sorry - at least, that's what worked for me.

[Harley47]

Well, it's difficult for me to imagine without the proper...er...lol anatomical similarities, but what does the pain feel like? I would imagine that if it felt sore, like in the same way a overworked muscle does, perhaps, that it'd be attributed to size. Going with the same line of thinking, I would think if it felt raw, he was too rough, or you weren't properly lubricated. Either way, too much friction in the latter.

lol Do keep in mind, that's me speaking as a guy...to say I'm "guesstimating" is generous. But I would think that would stand to reason? Either way, if it doesn't ease up very soon, I would recommend seeing your doctor ASAP. Better safe, and all.

But my main point...if he's being too rough, tell him so! He should respect you enough to "ease up" for your comfort.

I hope you feel better soon.

Hugs,
Harley