How important is Penis size in sex

Apr 05, 2013 at 12:51 PM

How important is Penis length and thickness to satisfy a women during sex?
What is average size and girth of erect one?

Inedible · Apr 05, 2013 at 01:37 PM

Most of the nerve endings are in the first 2 inches going in. 2.5 inches is the minimum to get the job done. I think the average was around 5 inches.

Just as the penis can vary in size, so can the vagina. The ideal length of the penis varies based on the size of the vagina. Sometimes a "below average" penis length will be "just right" if the vagina is unusually short and even an "average" penis will be uncomfortably large.

Maven · Apr 06, 2013 at 02:27 AM

5.1 to 5.9 inches in length. Inedible answered the question correctly.

big zero · Apr 07, 2013 at 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Inedible

...if the vagina is unusually short even an "average" penis will be uncomfortably large.

^ I can attest to that.

unaluna · Apr 07, 2013 at 01:45 PM

It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean. Women have many more nerve endings, all over the area, so if a guy just gets busy, size can be irrelevant.

Big Mama · Apr 07, 2013 at 09:09 PM

Size has little to do w/ things. Majority of the nerves are in the first 2 inches. About the length of fingers. Thickness, well I'm not real sure it matters. I suppose it could be an issue for some, but not for others. It is like ice cream. It's all good, but which is better a small scoop or a medium scoop. It's all yummy, and how big of a scoop depends on the mood and person. Just like the penis preference. It is up to the individual, but it is all good.

Apr 08, 2013 at 01:55 PM

Thanks all.
So, this means that guys who claim to be big and thick causes discomfort?

If the thickness is just two fingers, will it be sufficient?

Pandoren · Apr 08, 2013 at 02:51 PM

I do not speak from personal experience, because I don't have any (lol) but my thoughts on your last post:

a) sometimes men fib about how big they are.
b) some women like men who are big downstairs.
c) I *think* when some women get older and more experienced, or perhaps after childbirth, the vagina can be looser and perhaps less sensitive in some ways than it was when they were young inexperienced women, and as a result may desire a man who is bigger to give them the same feeling they had when they were younger?

yellowted · Apr 08, 2013 at 03:34 PM

sexual bits come in all kind of sizes, both mens and womens, so what is best fit for one is not for another. that said the motion of the ocean is certainly more important then size for most women.

Big Mama · Apr 08, 2013 at 07:39 PM

Soup that is correct. 2 Fingers width if sufficient.

Sufficient is all that is really required. Look threw toy catalogs. There are huge toys and small toys, long and short wide and thin. It is all up to the individual. I tell my H, look if a woman buys a toy the size of what God give ya, then you got enough.

It is mostly what you can do w/ what ya got. And we all like different things.

Apr 09, 2013 at 03:50 PM

Thanks a lot. So, all is on personal choice. No men needs to be ashamed of his size, infact too big might get troubles.

Big Mama · Apr 09, 2013 at 10:39 PM

absolutely, to big can cause issues as well. God blessed us all with big parts and small parts, it just makes us a complete human. We just have to learn to be happy w/ what the good lord gave us.

adam_k · Apr 11, 2013 at 11:00 AM

I think too big or long can cause discomfort. I have to be cautious when I have sex sometimes. Sometimes if I get a little to excited I go too deep and hit her cervix. It causes discomfort for her. The average depth of the cervix is 5-7 inches. She says it is like a sharp pain when that happens. Also being too large can cause stretching and discomfort as well. My wife had a toy that was a little larger than me and she stopped using it cause it hurt a little more than she like. It seams like I am a perfect fit for her. I think there is a lot more to sex than just the penatration. For me and my wife is is about the excitement and intimacy and mutual pleasure from the activity. Foreplay helps, she has a much better time when she is warmed up, compared to when we go right for sex. Best of luck and I don't think you should fret too much over size. Just enjoy sex and learn how to satsify eachother.

Big Mama · Apr 11, 2013 at 01:04 PM

Personally length is of little concern, width is preferred by me personally. (3 children, a 7 lb and two 9 lb babies, surely things are not as snug as they once were) the first few inches are where most of the nerve endings are. Beyond the first few inches I can't really feel the length unless one hits my cervix. Ouch. But the head only does lots for me. Don't know if we are allowed to say that or not, guess we will see. Just a simple reinsertion and withdraw and repeat as necessary is really all it takes for me. So length is of no value. I can't speak for all girls only me.

Apr 12, 2013 at 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Big Mama

Personally length is of little concern, width is preferred by me personally. (3 children, a 7 lb and two 9 lb babies, surely things are not as snug as they once were) the first few inches are where most of the nerve endings are. Beyond the first few inches I can't really feel the length unless one hits my cervix. Ouch. But the head only does lots for me. Don't know if we are allowed to say that or not, guess we will see. Just a simple reinsertion and withdraw and repeat as necessary is really all it takes for me. So length is of no value. I can't speak for all girls only me.

That gives good answer

I had wondered if such thing causes problems in marriages.

Maven · Apr 13, 2013 at 03:03 AM

I agree, width is preferable, but even so, too much is too much.

Big Mama · Apr 13, 2013 at 08:22 AM

Maven agreed, width, to much is sometimes just to much.

Apr 13, 2013 at 01:49 PM

I think this information is for all men....

Too big (length or width) can cause problem and pain. Women prefer average one... sweet small and slim

luvinglife2012 · Apr 13, 2013 at 05:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Big Mama

Personally length is of little concern, width is preferred by me personally. (3 children, a 7 lb and two 9 lb babies, surely things are not as snug as they once were) the first few inches are where most of the nerve endings are. Beyond the first few inches I can't really feel the length unless one hits my cervix. Ouch. But the head only does lots for me. Don't know if we are allowed to say that or not, guess we will see. Just a simple reinsertion and withdraw and repeat as necessary is really all it takes for me. So length is of no value. I can't speak for all girls only me.

Ditto!

Anything more than that in length hurts and not fun!

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Anonymous33065 Guest Posts: n/a	Apr 05, 2013 at 12:51 PM #1 How important is Penis length and thickness to satisfy a women during sex? What is average size and girth of erect one?
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Maven Pirate Goddess Member Since Oct 2005 Location: South Jersey, USA Posts: 5,246 18 513 hugs given	Apr 06, 2013 at 02:27 AM #3 5.1 to 5.9 inches in length. Inedible answered the question correctly. __________________ Maven If I had a dollar for every time I got distracted, I wish I had some ice cream. Equal Rights Are Not Special Rights
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unaluna Elder Harridan x-hankster Member Since Jun 2011 Location: Milan/Michigan Posts: 40,194 (SuperPoster!) 13 67.2k hugs given	Apr 07, 2013 at 01:45 PM #5 It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean. Women have many more nerve endings, all over the area, so if a guy just gets busy, size can be irrelevant.
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Anonymous33065 Guest Posts: n/a	Apr 08, 2013 at 01:55 PM #7 Thanks all. So, this means that guys who claim to be big and thick causes discomfort? If the thickness is just two fingers, will it be sufficient?
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yellowted Magnate Member Since Nov 2010 Location: UK Posts: 2,004 13 248 hugs given	Apr 08, 2013 at 03:34 PM #9 sexual bits come in all kind of sizes, both mens and womens, so what is best fit for one is not for another. that said the motion of the ocean is certainly more important then size for most women.
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Anonymous33065 Guest Posts: n/a	Apr 09, 2013 at 03:50 PM #11 Thanks a lot. So, all is on personal choice. No men needs to be ashamed of his size, infact too big might get troubles.
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Big Mama Magnate Member Since Jun 2012 Location: Virginia Posts: 2,191 12 646 hugs given	Apr 09, 2013 at 10:39 PM #12 absolutely, to big can cause issues as well. God blessed us all with big parts and small parts, it just makes us a complete human. We just have to learn to be happy w/ what the good lord gave us.
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Maven Pirate Goddess Member Since Oct 2005 Location: South Jersey, USA Posts: 5,246 18 513 hugs given	Apr 13, 2013 at 03:03 AM #16 I agree, width is preferable, but even so, too much is too much. __________________ Maven If I had a dollar for every time I got distracted, I wish I had some ice cream. Equal Rights Are Not Special Rights
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Big Mama Magnate Member Since Jun 2012 Location: Virginia Posts: 2,191 12 646 hugs given	Apr 13, 2013 at 08:22 AM #17 Maven agreed, width, to much is sometimes just to much.
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Anonymous33065 Guest Posts: n/a	Apr 13, 2013 at 01:49 PM #18 I think this information is for all men.... Too big (length or width) can cause problem and pain. Women prefer average one... sweet small and slim
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