My penis is too hard

I am abnormally flexible, as per a formal fitness assessment done by trainers at a gym.

There are different components of fitness - strength, stamina, etc. etc., and, flexibility. All the components are tested.

Everything but flexibility - the more the better. No limit.

Flexibility does not follow this rule - one can be abnormally flexible, and abnormal flexibility puts me at risk of injury (I am supposed to do strength exercises to lessen that risk, but am too lazy to actually do them; plus, they are boring).

If I start posting about it, I would soon see that many more people try to become MORE flexible (yoga etc) than worry about being TOO flexible.

In your case, many more people are unhappy when their flaccid penises do not become hard enough, than upset about your issue.

It does not mean that your issue does not exist - it is just in the minority.

Plus, when someone is insufficiently flexible, it is less of a big deal than when someone cannot maintain an erection. So it could be that all those guys (on other forums) who are unable to maintain an erection are simply not magnanimous enough to give your issue recognition and acknowledgement.

But again, do you really need COMPASSION, SUPPORT, GOOD VIBES, and other such intangible assets, or a FIX?

[quote=Illegal Toilet;3184794]Yes I was a virgin and then I wasn't. This is not an uncommon occurence.
It is but being a virgin and then not and then being a virgin again is pretty rare
I understand the mechanics.
Then you are halfway to solving the problem

That was because I didn't know if the first time counted because it was with a sex worker.

I think I finally decided that it didn't count, not for me, anyway.

I wasn't after vibes or compassion, just some serious thought on the subject. I noticed on googling this subject in forums that it is never taken seriously.

probably because its opposite is taken VERY seriously?

true... but, if there are BORN AGAIN people, what prevents one from being a virgin several times?

IT: you get to decide. If you decided that the sex worker incident did not count, then, it did not count.

It has been happening for about a year, ever since I stopped a certain medication, there's no pain, there's just lack of stimulation really.
There are also no performance issues.

white having not seen the worsening of this condition in a whole year probably means that it is stable, you would still be better off if you can see a doctor. Maintaining an erection for a doctor is jokes fodder - in reality you will likely talk about your issues instead.

I want to note I did take this problem seriously and there are medical reasons for this problem. Can you explain the above quote more? Isn't lack of stimulation a "performance issue"? Does it take too long to finish and climax? I'm not bashing porn but sometimes it can cause desensitization - which means it takes longer and sometimes this can end up hurting both partners. I understand many men are embarrassed speaking about this with doctors but they're used to this.

It's not a performance issue in terms of my ability to please my partner.

I do watch a bit of porn, usually the femdom stuff, but my partner wasn't dominant in that way so I don't think it desensitized me then or now . . . it seems to be a completely physical issue imo, although I think my depression levels affect it.

Have you tried a ribbed or textured condom to add an element of friction; it would rub one both ways, your partner and back into your penis. I would even though about putting such a condom on inside out. . .

In that case your p-doc (and not just a urologist or a GP) should know about it.