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View Poll Results: what kind of sexual encounters do you have over the course of a month
quickies only 2 9.09%
quickies only
2 9.09%
quickies w/ limited passionate sex 3 13.64%
quickies w/ limited passionate sex
3 13.64%
passionate sex only 6 27.27%
passionate sex only
6 27.27%
passionate sex w/ sometimes quickies 11 50.00%
passionate sex w/ sometimes quickies
11 50.00%
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Old May 19, 2013, 10:06 PM
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eski, I don't have the time to go into my whole story here. My life is an open book. Anyone that wants know why I do the things I do only has to look back at the things I have posted in threads. It has been a long cold lonley climb out of the pits of hell. I arrived at the top and am hoping things improve. Love will prevail and hopefully
i will learn to like sex or accept sex. Love come first though.
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Old May 20, 2013, 09:34 PM
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True, I didn't really think of sex as payment but I get what you mean...it can turn into that if a spouse gets impatient.
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Old May 21, 2013, 05:04 PM
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I've never experienced a quickie. The shortest time it has been for me was like 10 minutes and that felt too short. I wouldn't say I like long drawn out sex, but 20-30 mins seems to work best for me and my partner. Longer than that and certain parts begin to feel raw from the friction and become a lot less pleasurable.
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Old May 21, 2013, 05:33 PM
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Adam I totally agree more then 20 or 30 min and you get "rug burn". Not good. Good for you I hope quickie are something you never get reduced to. Have kids and it might though. 30 sec is sometimes all the opportunity you get. I feel the guilt of having to take care of his needs and if sec does it then I can spare 30 sec. I don't like that 30 sec, clean up takes longer then 30 sec, but what ever.
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Old May 21, 2013, 06:07 PM
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I love extended foreplay...raising my partner's passion to a fever pitch before entering her. I've always preferred foreplay over the actual "act." Ejaculation is nice, but it's kind of an anti-climax after testing & teasing the nerves all over my partner's body. I hope I'm not being too graphic...But you asked.
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Old May 21, 2013, 08:06 PM
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That sounds like fun. That is the kind of special things a girl dreams about. After a rape I don't stay present long enough to enjoy that. But one day I hope that is what sex turns into. I want to enjoy my mind just want let me. Thank you for sharing and congratulations on pleasantly exciting sex.
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Old May 24, 2013, 12:52 PM
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passionate sex w/ sometimes quickies
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