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Default Jun 21, 2013 at 10:33 PM
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I go off topic a lot. whatever happens to be on my mind at that moment is how I respond.
But that's not how a conversation or a thread works. When we ask you a question we expect you to respond to the topic and not shift to whatever you are feeling at the moment. It is hard to understand you when you cannot answer our questions or respond appropriately. Like another member has said, you need to talk to a professional about your lapses in reasoning.
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Default Jun 21, 2013 at 10:35 PM
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Also, it is best to stick to the original topic, which is masturbation.
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Default Jun 21, 2013 at 10:53 PM
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But that's not how a conversation or a thread works. When we ask you a question we expect you to respond to the topic and not shift to whatever you are feeling at the moment. It is hard to understand you when you cannot answer our questions or respond appropriately. Like another member has said, you need to talk to a professional about your lapses in reasoning.
what do you mean lapses in reasoning?
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Also, it is best to stick to the original topic, which is masturbation.
Alright then.
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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 12:45 AM
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what do you mean lapses in reasoning?
There is no point discussing it here. When you have somebody lined up, we can help you put together a collection of your statements that - to many people on the thread - demonstrate issues with your reasoning. Somebody calls them lapses, another person calls them circular, etc. - how they are called are not very important. The important part is seeing a professional.
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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 12:48 AM
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Yes I admit that at some point I felt like I was seriously important, but not anymore. that happened when I was bullied a lot and i thought that by exercising importance and being apathetic would help but no, i was wrong.
I am sorry the bullying happened to you.
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I am sorry the bullying happened to you.
it's alright. I want to move on already. My reasoning does kind of lapse because I cannot organize my thoughts on this site. Should I write them out before I express them? LOL.
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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 12:52 AM
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it's alright. I want to move on already. My reasoning does kind of lapse because I cannot organize my thoughts on this site. Should I write them out before I express them? LOL.
Maybe that, and diagramming would help, too. How one idea leads to the next, premise+premise tie together, conclusion gets formed, etc. Might help, indeed.
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Maybe that, and diagramming would help, too. How one idea leads to the next, premise+premise tie together, conclusion gets formed, etc. Might help, indeed.
I'll bet. and even when i'm writing papers for someone, i feel like jumping from one topic to another. and if I don't know much about a topic, then i wont research it. instead i will try to BS my way out of it. Well, that has not been proven to achieve desired results.
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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 01:12 AM
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Back on the topic of masturbation. When do women call it quits? I mean you can have multiple orgasms so do you go until your hand gets tired? (or the batteries die?)

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Back on the topic of masturbation. When do women call it quits? I mean you can have multiple orgasms so do you go until your hand gets tired? (or the batteries die?)
I have not tried with batteries yet, but here are a couple other reasons:

- you fall asleep or start feeling particularly relaxed and satisfied and not in need of more

- (if you do it before needing to leave the apartment), the need to go do other things takes over.
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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 09:44 AM
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honestly what's the matter with this generation? everyone is so freakin' liberal allowing so many things to happen, like sex, drugs, alcohol, etc...I don't want to be a part of this mess.
Tossing around the liberal label, to those who may consider themselves more on the conservative side, seems a bit awkward.

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Truth is, I kind of enjoy it, but the thing is I was not brought up to believe that porn was okay. Porn is filthy and is frowned upon by people. you know how those asians are...they're so judgmental. they don't understand that it's acceptable for teens to be wanking and porning, like white folks do. their teens do it and they're fine with it. Gosh, why can't we be more lenient with ourselves?
I helped a friend in college, typed up all their term papers and thesis papers on Japanese Hstory. How do you factor in the Anime porn that was created in Asia?????
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I am talking about the older generations, like grandma's or maybe the women in their 50s. we are part of the modern generation, but they aren't. If they know that you've been masturbating, then you're basically just screwed.
Well, I recall my grandparents receiving a book, for an anniversary about Sex over 60. I recall my grandmother telling me, that once, she and my grandfather went to a movie theatre to watch porn. They are Republicans. If my grandmother, ever knew, that I masturbated, I'm sure I wouldn't be screwed if she and her generation of friends knew about this. They have been selling sex toys since god only knows when. It's ancient history, I'm sure, if one researched, they'd discover this factoid.

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I have not seen the video, but there are religious people who will say masturbation is filthy and some will say it's okay. the liberals are more down-to-earth than the ones who say it's not. It's like their beliefs have been imprinted from early on and it just cannot be fixed.
Again, with the Liberal Talk...
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Back on the topic of masturbation. When do women call it quits? I mean you can have multiple orgasms so do you go until your hand gets tired? (or the batteries die?)
Women call it quits, when they feel satisfied, just like a man would, I'd suspect.
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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 11:49 AM
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Back on the topic of masturbation. When do women call it quits? I mean you can have multiple orgasms so do you go until your hand gets tired? (or the batteries die?)
Well, it all depends on my mood. Usually it's one and done, but if I don't feel satisfied with one because my fantasy is continuing after I orgasm (becuase generally if I watch porn it makes me orgasm within a minute and then I don't feel like I'm done), I give it another round. And then if I'm really horny, I keep going a one to three more times. The most times I've ever masturbated in a day was 5, which I think is impressive for a girl, not to brag or anything.
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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 12:33 PM
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I think the most for me was 7. After that I was a bit sore and couldn't do it anymore.

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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 01:39 PM
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Are orgasms from sex better than masturbation's? My orgasms are just "eh" and inaudible when I masturbate, I don't get more than a gasp from it. I'm hoping sex will be more intense orgasm-wise.
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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 01:52 PM
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For me they are way better from sex. When I pleasure myself it is like, oh that was good. When I have sex, especially if a slowly build up to an orgasm, it feels so incredible I can't even explain it. Even better if she has an orgasm at the same time and her parts are applying a little more pressure. I almost pass out sometimes.

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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 02:06 PM
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Are orgasms from sex better than masturbation's? My orgasms are just "eh" and inaudible when I masturbate, I don't get more than a gasp from it. I'm hoping sex will be more intense orgasm-wise.
Mine went from inaudible to very very audible, due to the progression of time. Started off with inaudible / solo, then inaudible / partner, and now audible both. Which has its own problems since I am considering renting out the second bedroom...

"Even a gasp" is a good start though and, technically speaking, not "inaudible" but "faint" - and, something is better than nothing.
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When the mood strike.
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