Missing physical contact.

Jun 05, 2013 at 11:38 PM

So my ex came over to get some of her stuff and we sort of exchanged gifts, because she let me keep one of her things and vice versa.

Then there was some non-intimate physical contact, but I really wanted to **** her at that time.

What are some ways that I can get some good physical contact without seeing a prostitute, just to tide me over in the meantime?

LiteraryLark · Jun 05, 2013 at 11:41 PM

I know that feel.

I've never even had a boyfriend.

Try okcupid or pof. They're online dating sites, but you can put your preferences to wanting casual sex or dating, etc. Also, on OKC there is a Blind Date option where you can set up a time and you will be matched with someone else to go on a date.

Poppy Princess · Jun 05, 2013 at 11:44 PM

Why not a prostitute? Just curious.

Jun 05, 2013 at 11:52 PM

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Originally Posted by ArmyGirl

Why not a prostitute? Just curious.

I would like some level of intimacy rather than just sexual intercourse.

hamster-bamster · Jun 06, 2013 at 12:16 AM

I have just learned of something called the Cuddle Parties where people come together for non-sexual touch. That is all I know, and I do not know if there are any in Australia. I assume that there is a fee associated with attending them.

If all you want is pure non-intimate physical contact, and, you do not mind spending some time and expending some loving kindness, I would volunteer at your local hospice and touch the faces and hands of people who are dying. They will surely appreciate.

Poppy Princess · Jun 06, 2013 at 12:18 AM

But if you do want sexual, there's always make out parties :P

Jun 06, 2013 at 12:53 AM

The hospice idea is a little too much for me. I am already a hypochondriac and I avoid reading about illness let alone encountering it.

Plus it has to be sexualised touching.

robutts · Jun 08, 2013 at 12:07 PM

If you need sexualized touching, but no casual sex, then you're going to need to work for that emotional intimacy.

hamster-bamster · Jun 08, 2013 at 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by ArmyGirl

there's always make out parties :P

I have never heard of make out parties, so I looked them up on Wikipedia, which, surprisingly, speaks of them in the past tense only:

Making out - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (it is a short article, and if you read through, you will see that no present tense verb is ever used).

What gives?

doggiedo · Jun 08, 2013 at 07:27 PM

Cuddle puddle!

hamster-bamster · Jun 08, 2013 at 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by doggiedo

Cuddle puddle!

Lovely!

And you do not even have to be a human: per Google Image search, it works equally well for felines and some other mammals.

cuddle puddle - Google Search

Jun 09, 2013 at 02:27 AM

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Originally Posted by robutts

If you need sexualized touching, but no casual sex, then you're going to need to work for that emotional intimacy.

I didn't say I don't want sex, it's just that I don't want sex and only sex. I want intimacy as well.

Poppy Princess · Jun 09, 2013 at 02:42 AM

I'm sure teenagers still have make out parties. I don't want to hijack this thread so that's last time I'll mention make out parties.

Jun 09, 2013 at 11:05 AM

Cyber stalking my ex. . . starting to resent her now, she is always on the computer too.

Jun 09, 2013 at 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Illegal Toilet

I didn't say I don't want sex, it's just that I don't want sex and only sex. I want intimacy as well.

Well the obvious answer is to say you need to find a new GF. If you don't want to see a prostitute you could get a **** buddie, but they won't likely give you intimacy either as they just want sex with no strings attached.

hamster-bamster · Jun 09, 2013 at 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Illegal Toilet

Cyber stalking my ex. . . starting to resent her now, she is always on the computer too.

Illegal Toilet, I think what you are doing is counterproductive to the subject of the thread, as originally posted. In other words, you will be missing physical contact even MORE if you continue cyber stalking her, without doing anything to get physical contact. That is worse than doing nothing at all, which, at least, would not make you miss physical contact yet MORE.

Jun 10, 2013 at 04:29 AM

You are right. I think I have become undateable now though.

I also daydream about her a lot.

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Anonymous33211 Guest Posts: n/a	Jun 05, 2013 at 11:38 PM #1 So my ex came over to get some of her stuff and we sort of exchanged gifts, because she let me keep one of her things and vice versa. Then there was some non-intimate physical contact, but I really wanted to **** her at that time. What are some ways that I can get some good physical contact without seeing a prostitute, just to tide me over in the meantime?
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LiteraryLark Crowned "The Good Witch" Member Since Jun 2009 Location: Wonderland Posts: 11,536 (SuperPoster!) 15 1,318 hugs given	Jun 05, 2013 at 11:41 PM #2 I know that feel. I've never even had a boyfriend. Try okcupid or pof. They're online dating sites, but you can put your preferences to wanting casual sex or dating, etc. Also, on OKC there is a Blind Date option where you can set up a time and you will be matched with someone else to go on a date.
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Anonymous33211 Guest Posts: n/a	Jun 06, 2013 at 12:53 AM #7 The hospice idea is a little too much for me. I am already a hypochondriac and I avoid reading about illness let alone encountering it. Plus it has to be sexualised touching.
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robutts Member Member Since May 2013 Posts: 38 11 27 hugs given	Jun 08, 2013 at 12:07 PM #8 If you need sexualized touching, but no casual sex, then you're going to need to work for that emotional intimacy.
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doggiedo Poohbah Member Since Jan 2012 Location: Northeast US Posts: 1,014 12 242 hugs given	Jun 08, 2013 at 07:27 PM #10 Cuddle puddle!
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Poppy Princess Account Suspended Member Since Apr 2013 Location: Salem, N.H. Posts: 1,400 11 157 hugs given	Jun 09, 2013 at 02:42 AM #13 I'm sure teenagers still have make out parties. I don't want to hijack this thread so that's last time I'll mention make out parties.
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Anonymous33211 Guest Posts: n/a	Jun 09, 2013 at 11:05 AM #14 Cyber stalking my ex. . . starting to resent her now, she is always on the computer too.
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Anonymous33211 Guest Posts: n/a	Jun 10, 2013 at 04:29 AM #17 You are right. I think I have become undateable now though. I also daydream about her a lot.
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