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View Poll Results: Do women look better wearing makeup or do women look better not wearing makeup?
Wearing makeup 17 35.42%
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17 35.42%
Natural, without wearing makeup. 31 64.58%
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31 64.58%
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Old Jun 14, 2013, 11:36 AM
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Some men are indeed liars, sexists, and hypocrites... Just like some women

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Old Jun 14, 2013, 03:08 PM
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I don't think the men are lying or hypocritical when they say they prefer no makeup. I simply think that when a woman is wearing it properly, that is in a subtle way that doesn't SCREAM "I've got my face covered in makeup," he may not even realize she's wearing any. If she has evened out her skin tone and made it look rosy, and accented her best features while drawing attention away from her flaws, he might think she just has really good, healthy skin. Therefore he'll say he prefers that look, as opposed to Mimi who was pictured in an earlier post.

Whether or not makeup clogs pores depends on brand, how thickly it's applied, and whether or not it's removed properly, as well as general skin care practices. If I'm not mistaken, it would seem waterproof brands are more likely to clog pores, since perspiration won't dilute it. This is one reason I never use waterproof. I also don't use mascara of any kind, since even "hypoallergenic" brands tend to irritate me. I guess I just don't like to have anything directly touching my eyelashes. To draw attention to my eyes, I use liner. Brown-black nowadays, at this stage of my life, whereas when I was younger I went for blackest-black. Too dark a shade would now look garish on me.

Also, as Venus pointed out, makeup must be removed at night, even if it is not full coverage. I wash my face as usual, use a baby wipe to get anything that remains, and then apply a small bit of mineral oil (I have very dry skin) to a cotton ball and use it on the driest parts of my face. It makes my skin very soft in the morning.

PS: I don't wear makeup if I'm just hanging around the house or doing personal errands like grocery shopping. I wear it for church, business, and any other time my appearance matters, because unfortunately if you're a woman, it often does.

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Old Jun 14, 2013, 09:06 PM
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Should women wear make-up? I don't think so. Nobody should do anything unless they want to.

I do, however, think that most women look better with a little bit of make-up. Everything in moderation though. I personally don't like it when a woman is obviously wearing way too much make-up. I prefer the more natural look.

Then again, my opinion does not matter at all. As long as everyone just does whatever makes them feel comfortable, it's all good.
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Old Jun 14, 2013, 10:59 PM
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Fair enough.

I just don't like the attitude of some of the women on here who are having a go at men, when there's no reason for it.

It was a simple question aimed at men if they prefer a woman with or without make up. When many of the men said they didn't, they were more or less accused of being liars and hypocrites. A few other subtle sexist remarks also.
Okay I'm sorry now (((Lycanthrope)))
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Old Jun 14, 2013, 11:08 PM
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I think wearing makeup is distracting. At least, if I think it's distracting, then it's too much makeup. There's the clumpy mascara, or the mascara that makes your eyelashes look like spider legs, eyeshadow that's too dark or too colorful, overdone eyeliner that tries to mimic Cleopatra, too much blush/bronzer... The general rule is to wear makeup that looks like you're not wearing makeup at all.

I think the natural look is very eye-catching and makes me say "Wow, that is a confident woman, I would date her."
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 12:20 AM
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Should people let people do whatever they want with their bodies? <-- That's what you are asking me. Yes. Yes they should. Let other people do what they want with their face. . .Conclusion? This question is irrelevant.
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 12:35 AM
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As far as personal preference, it depends on the build and features of the woman in question.

as far as the main should they are not - there is no real answer that's up to them personally.
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 02:56 AM
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Personally I prefer fragrance oils & accessory's. I have my own blend.

When I do an art function I sometimes have used ink for flowers and vines on my face. I do, do makeup when I have to for professional reasons but I get this "Oh My g*d" "you look sooo good", reaction that makes me feel like everyone is lying when they say I look good w/o make up. Still I look years younger than my actual age. A fact I attribute to no make up, no smoking and dancing as much as I can. No, I think its genetics. My mother has never dyed her hair and still has no gray at 85 and looks decades younger.
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 09:49 AM
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I wanted to point something out. It came to mind because I'm resuming an employment placement program through Vocational Rehabilitation. I had been previously assessed for a similar program, and the (female) case workers took points off of my job readiness evaluation for my "hygiene." I was concerned that I smelled bad or something and didn't know it, so I asked them about it, and all it turned out to be was that I wasn't wearing makeup. That's right, just because I was a woman, wearing makeup was considered part of acceptable work-ready personal hygiene. They wouldn't have docked a man, clean and groomed to the same degree I was, for not wearing makeup. But a woman is considered somehow not as professional-looking without it. By the way, I had not been told, before the evaluation started, that a professional appearance would be expected of me.

I ended up not being placed in a job that time because who's going to read "poor personal hygiene" in an evaluation, and hire that person? They made it sound like I didn't take a shower or something.
I think that is very bad. Almost discriminatory. Hygiene is about cleanliness, no odours, it isnt really about neatness. Thats when it switches to cosmetic levels. How do they get away with that one.
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 10:19 AM
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Should people let people do whatever they want with their bodies? <-- That's what you are asking me. Yes. Yes they should.
Actually if you'd followed the thread or read the actual poll question you'd have realised that certainly was not the question being asked. However I'd gladly debate that proposed question with you if you care to start a seperate thread for it... http://forums.psychcentral.com/gener...ml#post3117092

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Old Jun 15, 2013, 11:32 AM
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Can someone show me a picture of "just a little makeup"? I mean find something off Google and post.

I'm curious what this means to you.
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 11:57 AM
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Can someone show me a picture of "just a little makeup"? I mean find something off Google and post.

I'm curious what this means to you.
Should women wear makeup?

This is one example of minimal nude makeup but she still has products like cover-up, foundation, blush, eye shadow/liner, mascara and lip color. Minimal makeup usually is nude tones. It could also be brown mascara and clear lip gloss.

Personally I wear nude tones and like to wear makeup because I have blond eyebrows and light eyelashes that don't show without it. Many men who have wondering eyes go for women who have makeup and look sexy.
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 12:13 PM
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Should people let people do whatever they want with their bodies? <-- That's what you are asking me. Yes. Yes they should. Let other people do what they want with their face. . .Conclusion? This question is irrelevant.
The question is irrelevant to you. It was a simple question asking if men prefer a woman with or without make up.

It's no different to a woman started a thread and asking if men look better shaved and waxed or natural and hairy.
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 12:52 PM
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The question is irrelevant to you. It was a simple question asking if men prefer a woman with or without make up.

It's no different to a woman started a thread and asking if men look better shaved and waxed or natural and hairy.
Men look totally better natural and hairy! Who's the hypocrite now?

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Old Jun 15, 2013, 12:52 PM
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The question is irrelevant to you. It was a simple question asking if men prefer a woman with or without make up.

It's no different to a woman started a thread and asking if men look better shaved and waxed or natural and hairy.
lol okay, okay.
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 12:58 PM
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This thread actually was NOT created only for men. Just predominately lol. Just saying.
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 01:06 PM
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It'd have been interesting to have seperately posted this thread under both the male only and female only section of the forum and then to have compared those results.

Probably less fun though
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 06:20 PM
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Here's a picture of Taylor Swift, with and without makeup. Opinions, guys? Does she look better without?
Should women wear makeup?Should women wear makeup?
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 06:31 PM
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Her face looks better in the first picture.

Her hair looks unhealthy in.both though
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 06:52 PM
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The question is irrelevant to you. It was a simple question asking if men prefer a woman with or without make up.

It's no different to a woman started a thread and asking if men look better shaved and waxed or natural and hairy.
My viewpoint, it depends on the man. I don't think a man ever needs waxing. That's just going too far. If the problem is bushy eyebrows, trimming is enough. That's how my husband keeps his under control. As for facial hair, some men look good in mustaches and beards, and other men look better clean-shaven. If they do have facial hair, I prefer it groomed and trimmed, but obvious that it's intentional, not permastubble (sorry, Don Johnson) that just looks like he forgot to shave that morning. Nor do I like the walrus look (sorry, Jamie Hyneman). George Michael and Tom Selleck do it well. When hubby was younger, he wore a mustache. I've seen pictures of him with it, but it was gone before I met him. He looked HOT in those pictures, and I wish he'd grow it again, but he said he got tired of it and doesn't want to now.

I did once know a man who let his beard grow unkempt and wouldn't even comb or trim it "because it's natural this way." He looked hideous, in my opinion. We trim gardens instead of letting them get weedy and overgrown. We should do the same with our personal appearance.
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 07:07 PM
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Hyneman wouldn't be the same without his mustache though!! Actually I'm not at all bothered by it. He is an unique creature.

For some reason Tom Selleck's made me shudder though. I think it is because he has no beard.
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Old Jun 15, 2013, 08:23 PM
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Taylor Swift looks better with the make up.

It really depends on the woman though and also how used to seeing someone with or without make up. If I see someone who usually doesn't have any or little make up, and then see them once with make up on, I'm likely to think they look better without it because that's what I'm used to seeing. Vice versa if they're always wearing make up.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 10:48 AM
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LOL... just depends on my mood.... but typically none if any....
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 02:37 PM
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I think Taylor Swift has the WRONG makeup on for her young face and her natural colouring She just cant get away with that much drama. Think if she had dark colouring it wouldnt seem so harsh. Therefore she looks better in the first pic.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 04:14 PM
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Her face looks better in the first picture.

Her hair looks unhealthy in.both though
I agree about the makeup.

Not entirely certain about the unhealthiness in her hair. Maybe, the first, looks a little dry and if I look closely some split ends.

How about the second photo??
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