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How often do you ejaculate?
 

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Default Jun 19, 2013 at 10:58 PM
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Generally, if you have a problem with masturbation you would try to avoid the subject.

I can tell you that most teenagers masturbate and it's completely normal and not weird.
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Generally, if you have a problem with masturbation you would try to avoid the subject.

I can tell you that most teenagers masturbate and it's completely normal and not weird.
is the following an opinion piece, or should I be worried? This won't happen anytime soon though.
Even apart from the issue of pornography addiction, which is a phenomenon that can absolutely destroy a relationship, heterosexual men who consume porn tend to report experiencing less satisfaction with the woman they have sex with – after all, why can’t my girlfriend do that thing I saw on my computer screen?
 
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if porn is not real why should i spend so much time watching it? then again, television may not be either. haha
 
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Generally, if you have a problem with masturbation you would try to avoid the subject.

I can tell you that most teenagers masturbate and it's completely normal and not weird.
It's so weird...or maybe i'm just letting my mind fool me but whenever I use deodorant like on that very same day, i would ejaculate. or when I use hand sanitizer or lotion. That's why I've been avoiding all these products altogether and as soon as I use them, they just start to have an effect on me again.
 
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Default Jun 20, 2013 at 03:02 AM
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I no longer feel the need to ejaculate, however sometimes i do it quite frequently because it becomes a habit or a pastime.

For example, i didn't ejaculate for a week or two prior to 3 days ago but have now ejaculate 3 times in the last 3 days.

If I wanted to produce a maximum amount of sperm quickly I could probably ejaculate every 20 minutes.
 
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Default Jun 21, 2013 at 03:57 AM
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I tend to go through phases these days, I can't remember the last time I did.

When I was a teenager it was around 3-4 times a day, everyday!
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I tend to go through phases these days, I can't remember the last time I did.

When I was a teenager it was around 3-4 times a day, everyday!
3-4 times is a lot. I feel like the years have gone by so fast and i notice how the amount of ejaculation i've had has increased.
 
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Generally, if you have a problem with masturbation you would try to avoid the subject.

I can tell you that most teenagers masturbate and it's completely normal and not weird.
Yeah maybe I should. I don't see how a subject like this can be a trigger for sex and everything. why does thinking about it lead one to act upon it? that's silly.
 
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Yeah maybe I should. I don't see how a subject like this can be a trigger for sex and everything. why does thinking about it lead one to act upon it? that's silly.
Well all your posts have been about how your triggers lead to your masturbating or ejaculating such as touching lotion or tissues, so clearly the subject of masturbation and ejaculation is indeed an issue or trigger for you.
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Well all your posts have been about how your triggers lead to your masturbating or ejaculating such as touching lotion or tissues, so clearly the subject of masturbation and ejaculation is indeed an issue or trigger for you.
Yeah, I wish for once I can talk about these matters without resorting to masturbation.
 
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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 12:44 AM
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Madturbation is natural and normal. Do it when it feels right for you. If u do it To much then it could be an obsession or addiction issue that u should seek medical advice for.
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Yeah, I wish for once I can talk about these matters without resorting to masturbation.

Really? Are you openly admitting that these threads are becoming a tool for self-gratification?
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Really? Are you openly admitting that these threads are becoming a tool for self-gratification?
i doubt it. sometimes it is. or when i'm reading about sex hormones and then all of a sudden i just want to engage in this type of behavior. it's weird. How can a brief talk about masturbation or pornography lead to the behavior that I want to get rid of? Also, when we were taking notes for government at school the other day, our instructor mentioned sales of pornography, and some other stuff that cannot be restricted and things like that. At the mention of the word, i chuckled. many of them were silent.
 
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I think your tool of self-gratification is the following: you enjoy getting a lot of people peeved by your seemingly endless stubbornness. So you keep complaining that you feel bad when or after masturbating and lots of people go to great lengths trying to explain to you that you should stop feeling bad both when and after masturbating and - end of story. Just stop feeling bad once and for all.

In response to all this outpouring of reassurance from your well-wishers, you said (paraphrasing): "Oh, this does not work. this sets me up for addiction. I need to hear a stern, oppressive message, which, even though untrue, would help me keep my masturbation in check."

OK, so if you need to hear that message, go somewhere else to hear it. I am sure that the internet (which has basically everything) has a forum for people who believe that masturbation causes severe mental decline and, ultimately, a slow, torture-like death at a young age. So go there and ask for the message you want to hear, OK? What you have been doing on this forum is a reversed intellectual gang rape - reversed in that one person rapes a whole lot of people intellectually by trying to get them to say something that they would not say on their own volition and exercising their free will.
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I think your tool of self-gratification is the following: you enjoy getting a lot of people peeved by your seemingly endless stubbornness. So you keep complaining that you feel bad when or after masturbating and lots of people go to great lengths trying to explain to you that you should stop feeling bad both when and after masturbating and - end of story. Just stop feeling bad once and for all.

In response to all this outpouring of reassurance from your well-wishers, you said (paraphrasing): "Oh, this does not work. this sets me up for addiction. I need to hear a stern, oppressive message, which, even though untrue, would help me keep my masturbation in check."

OK, so if you need to hear that message, go somewhere else to hear it. I am sure that the internet (which has basically everything) has a forum for people who believe that masturbation causes severe mental decline and, ultimately, a slow, torture-like death at a young age. So go there and ask for the message you want to hear, OK? What you have been doing on this forum is a reversed intellectual gang rape - reversed in that one person rapes a whole lot of people intellectually by trying to get them to say something that they would not say on their own volition and exercising their free will.
Well don't get mad. I just feel like I can keep it in check if someone told me a lie but not an extreme lie like that. And no, I am not stubborn. I am only having a conversation with you. Where did the stubbornness come in?
 
 
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all i really want is a quick fix, a reversal of all the potential damages it may have had on me, and a recovery from that porn mindset, that there's more to it than just making someone feel like a victim and giving yourself pleasure from that. it's wrong, simply wrong.
 
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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 03:10 PM
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This is why your logic makes no sense and people don't like to talk to you.

Either masturbate or don't, but don't hog half a dozen threads so you can complain how much you hate to masturbate.

The only lie we can tell you for your quick fix is that masturbation is bad for you. But that is a lie, masturbation does wonders for your health physically and emotionally. There's no such thing as a reversal for masturbation. You can't take it back. You're supposed to enjoy it but you expect us to tell you that we too find masturbation appalling, but that is a lie. If you look through our threads, most of us have said that we enjoy masturbating and have no problem with it. The only recovery you have is to accept that masturbation is beneficial for you.

I can't lie to you and sugarcoat and say that masturbation is a bad thing, because it's not. That's the reality. I suggest you stick to one thread about your masturbation so the rest of us who enjoy can enjoy our conversations.
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This is why your logic makes no sense and people don't like to talk to you.

Either masturbate or don't, but don't hog half a dozen threads so you can complain how much you hate to masturbate.

The only lie we can tell you for your quick fix is that masturbation is bad for you. But that is a lie, masturbation does wonders for your health physically and emotionally. There's no such thing as a reversal for masturbation. You can't take it back. You're supposed to enjoy it but you expect us to tell you that we too find masturbation appalling, but that is a lie. If you look through our threads, most of us have said that we enjoy masturbating and have no problem with it. The only recovery you have is to accept that masturbation is beneficial for you.

I can't lie to you and sugarcoat and say that masturbation is a bad thing, because it's not. That's the reality. I suggest you stick to one thread about your masturbation so the rest of us who enjoy can enjoy our conversations.
i meant the porn. Okay I will accept it, but the porn must go. I can only have one of them, and that's masturbation.
 
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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 03:57 PM
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Not to try bash my own religion, but if you want to feel guilty about it go catholic. You will have a reason then to not want to do it. You can even talk to a priest and have him tell you it is wrong and against gods will. That sex should just he between a man and woman and everything else is just lust and a sin.

But you shouldn't take up a half a dozen threads with it saying it is wrong and side tracking the discussion with your issue. It is inconsiderate.

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