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Default Aug 06, 2013 at 01:49 PM
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What's sexy to me:

I'm a strange case in that I am not visually attracted to a male body. If I find a male attractive, he is likely to have feminine features such as gorgeous eyes, or shaggy hair. By contrast, if by chance I see a racy photo of a woman, I find I have to turn away to keep from lusting* while a similar photo of a man won't even blip my radar. Beefcake, ho-hum.

Yet the sound of a deep, soft-timbered voice will "zing" me from here to the moon! Although singing helps, it can be a spoken word, whispered softly in my ear, and I'll shiver.

To give an example, I recently had the opportunity to see the 2012 version of Les Miserables. I wanted to see it when it came out in theaters, but never got a chance until a few days ago with our cable company's On Demand. Anne Hathaway was the reason I wanted to see it. I've got a well-established lady crush on her. But Russell Crowe--I hadn't really paid attention to him until his rendition of Stars. That low note on the line, "fallen from God," caught me full force, and I was hypnotized from that point on. He's not the best singer in the world, but I actually prefer a bit of rawness. I don't want a voice to be so polished I could slip on it and break my neck.

How the visual and the auditory can work together in the same person, I don't know, since a feminine body with a baritone voice would be weird and more likely to freak me out than anything else.


*Please don't feel put off by my conservative values. My views govern only my own behavior. I don't condemn anyone.
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Default Aug 06, 2013 at 03:26 PM
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Food is definitely sexy. It just satisfies all my senses.
I am into kink so I find things like pain sexy. I am all over the place with what I find sexy, really. Pretty much anything queer. The women I'm attracted to usually have short-cropped hair and exude the presence of androgyny and the men I'm attracted to are usually kinda pretty. I'm also attracted to gay men.
I think geeks are hot. I think generosity is hot. Gay male sex turns me on faster than anything else. I enjoy reading and writing erotica. I enjoy experimenting and pushing barriers. I kinda feel like I want to try a bit of everything before I say it's not for me.

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Default Aug 06, 2013 at 08:30 PM
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^^Gay men and geeks, yes. That's the kind of man I tend to find physically attractive.
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Default Aug 07, 2013 at 11:31 AM
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I've had gay male fantasies since I was little. Like, elementary. My first gay crush was on Clay Aiken before he even came out.
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Default Aug 07, 2013 at 11:58 AM
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Default Aug 07, 2013 at 12:09 PM
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You know what's sexy?

My avatar enlarged. From the amazing fanfiction Counting Stars/Falling Stars.
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Default Aug 21, 2013 at 03:25 PM
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To anyone who may not be body confident, I suggest that you go to a beach or a park on a hot summer day - you'll see many different body shapes and sizes. I've done just that and I find the average girl to be more sexy than those on magazine covers

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Default Aug 21, 2013 at 03:43 PM
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I tell you what's sexy. A woman with at least medium length hair that twirls it with her fingers as she walks along *warmly shudders*

I need one of them

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Default Aug 26, 2013 at 03:58 AM
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I don't know about you guys but this thread has made me incredibly hungry.

If hamburgers with cheese was a woman I would be the father of her babies by now. Especially if its Burger King. I like McDonalds all right but Burger King burgles, like the Whopper, are just so good. Almost everywhere I go if there's a burger to eat I'll order it with a side of fries.

I find women in suits sexy and while I love long hair just the same there are a lot of women with short hair that I just love. I also noticed that I have a thing for brunettes.
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Default Aug 26, 2013 at 05:39 AM
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*snarfs bar of chocolate* No, this thread doesn't make me hungry at all…

Chips, pizza covered in cheese- salty, fatty food in general. French fries. French guys (preferably not fatty). Chocolate and black coffee. Not sugary foods or caffeinated drinks in general, just those two things. Cookies (especially chocolate ones) and my nerdy friend who buys me cookies all the time even though we're both broke. I have a thing for smart guys anyway, and/or guy who are athletic in a lean way. Slightly messy or curly hair is a plus. I just need to find one that isn't taken, dating one of my friends or celibate for religious reasons (stupid sexy friend).
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Default Aug 26, 2013 at 09:39 AM
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Girls

My wife always asks me about my fantasies and such. I don't have any. I'm just happy to have her around.

Basically, if you don't get to eat for two weeks, any food seems good. That's the way I am with the concept of sexy. Before my wife, I couldn't buy a date at the Bunny Ranch so the idea of something specific was just ridiculous ... I just wanted something, anything.

So yeah, girls are sexy. Anything else is just icing on the cake.
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Default Aug 27, 2013 at 01:10 PM
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-Tan lines
-French braids
-Flawless skin or freckles across the bridge of the nose.
-Occasionally sleeping in a strange bed
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Default Aug 27, 2013 at 07:02 PM
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-Tan lines
-French braids
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Are you by any chance into country music and the like?
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Default Aug 28, 2013 at 04:18 AM
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In addition to the gay men and the geeks, I go for the big cuddly teddy-bear types. Most of the men I've ever had a serious relationship with have been great big bears. Those who weren't, were gay or geeks. (Yes, I did at one point in my life marry a gay man.) Some have been a combination of any two. I don't think I've ever had a serious relationship with a man who was all three.

In general I tend to be out of the mainstream with my taste in men, maybe because I'm selecting on something other than pure animal attraction. Those muscly, flexing, pecs and biceps other women scream over do nothing to grab my interest. I see nothing sexy about icons like Fabio, or Tim McGraw, or Brad Pitt, or Johnny Depp. I've mentioned that my husband doesn't really zing me, but he needn't feel slighted, because an evening with the Chippendales wouldn't either. As I said in an earlier post--beefcake, yawn.
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Default Aug 28, 2013 at 11:43 AM
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Are you by any chance into country music and the like?
Not at all. Is it your understanding that those are the stereotypical things a "Country" guy likes?
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Not at all. Is it your understanding that those are the stereotypical things a "Country" guy likes?
Almost every male country song refers to at least three of those qualities.
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