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Junior Member
Member Since Jul 2013
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Hello! I wanted to talk a little about my sexuality. Hope it´s okay that I share my whole story
![]() So yeah I do find women very beautiful and do look at them. I feel like I am more interested in women and who they are. I usually often feel more connected to them. With men I usually se them as creatures. Mysterious creatures who sometimes is the missing puzzle piece like Yin and Yang. Do I don´t really loook at them and say oh he´s so hot like I feel like some people do. It happens sometimes but not as often as it seems happening with my friends. Though it does happen more often with women. But at the same time I´m not really attracted to breasts though but they look nice XD Well does are my thoughts. It´s kind of overwhelming to be pendling this much... So to this day I don´t label myself in any sexual orientation. Does anyone relate to anything I´ve written? And thanks a lot to those who have read this far! ![]() Lot´s of love ![]() |
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Crowned "The Good Witch"
Member Since Jun 2009
Location: Wonderland
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Everyone matures at different rates. It's true that most people experiment in high school, but that's not always the case. I dated mostly girls in high school but now prefer men over women because I realized that what I wanted could not be found in women.
However, my best friend who is the same age as me is now just starting to experiment with women and is telling me that she is having crushes on me, and we're both out of high school. I would recommend you try looking for what you want in men and women and you would find that they are likely to be completely different. |
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Member Since Sep 2011
Location: Northern California
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It sounds to me that you are a wonderful person in touch with herself and in awe of all things human.
With that kind of mindset, I do not see how you might ever benefit from labeling yourself. What would be the purpose of such labeling? |
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Therapy Ninja
Member Since Jan 2007
Location: How did I get here?
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You didn't say your age -- if you are still young you are just beginning to explore who you are. I really think that sexuality is a multitude of spectrums, not a bunch of false dichotomies. I'm straight but as a young person I had girl crushes while having a boyfriend too. Maybe you are a lesbian, or bi, or a curious and open hearted straight person. Does it matter? Nothing bad can come of just loving others imho.
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