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#61
i hate my vagina and my breasts. I know i'm snug, i control the muscles well, i know how to use it, but i think it is horrifically ugly and i do not allow oral sex. ever.
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Oh now are we hating/loving on breasts? In high school the boys would tell me I had "nice lungs". Back then I had a purple crushed velvet bikini and had no idea how good I looked........
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Gravity and childbearing.
Funny how the breasts and vagina, two things that men enjoy on a female are also the two things that take the brunt of the 'normal outcome' of such escapades (bearing children) and then are the two things that often are the first to betray us by showing signs of use, lol. At one point, supple, smooth, firm etc.. then *sighs* anyhooooo |
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#64
What the heck were you thinking?
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gross, nasty, sick, That's what i think..
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appreciate natural looking breasts, even if they are saggy.
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HI, I wanna go back On Topic here?
"Do you worry whether your Vagina is Good Enough?" is the question? Answer: No. |
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No because then they would have won.
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A gentle reminder to stick with the OP's topic.
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Good for you. May I suggest focus on the outcome and not the process? You need the information and help you should get as a result. Think of the relief when you know what's wrong and even more when it is fixed. Better off informed. Think of the outcome. Be strong, soldier on, get through it. And have an ice cream, video, good book, or whatever you like afterwards. You deserve it for facing your fear.
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I should have known better than to post it the way I did, without qualifiers. I know a BIT of what it is like - in my last pregnancy, I was, for several months, headed for a planned C-section because it appeared, on the ultra-sound, that I had placenta previa. Luckily, it was not a true previa - it was just a low sitting placenta that moved up enough as the uterus grew, so I was able to deliver at home, and although I started hemorrhaging a lot due to the low placenta, the midwives, who expected that complication, stopped the bleeding in a twinkle of an eye. For a "true" placenta previa, the C-section is the only way to save both mother and baby. Without a C-section, both mother and baby die eventually. I had that eerie feeling when I thought that I had a placenta previa. I thought to myself: "I am really blessed with medical technology - had I been living thousands of years ago, my days would have been numbered." I am sorry. Very true. |
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No need to be sorry.
I trust nature more than manmade junk in most cases, so I share your ethos, I think. |
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I did not get any kind of a "dirty", "inadequate", etc. message about my vagina. My mother stressed the need to use the shower hose in the right direction when washing the perineum - from front to back and not vice versa. She explained that urine is sterile while feces is not, and that it was important not to push the germs from behind to the front and up the vagina. Checking on the web now, I see that she was almost right - urine might not be exactly sterile by the time it leaves the urethra, but it is almost sterile. And although I have not done it, I have read about rectal (using a synonym to avoid asterisks) sex - they stress the importance of hygiene. So the message that the vagina is very clean BY ITSELF and needs to be protected was basically correct. Later, in the States, back before the campaign against antibiotic abuse started, I got antibiotics prescribed to me all the time, in cases in which they were not needed (I had a lot of sinus infections and other respiratory infections (bronchitis, ear infections - the whole nine yards) - basically back-to-back). The antibiotics would instantly give me a vaginal yeast infection. So I learned that the vagina had a fragile micro-flora that gets easily disrupted. That does not make it DIRTY. It makes it vulnerable, but not dirty Yet later, I started buying an Italian hygiene product - a foam for washing the vulva. The advertising copy stressed the right pH balance of the product. It was great to use it, but hard to replenish my stash, so I switched to the product line from the Sweet Spot labs that is available in the US. It does not feel as good to use it because it is liquid - I prefer the foam - but it does the job beautifully. That the vagina has a specific pH that needs to be respected does not make it DIRTY. So basically it is an organ that needs to be treated with care and without too much intervention, to avoid disrupting its micro-flora (the "good" bacteria that live there), to avoid changing its pH, and to avoid having germs enter it from the back. That kind of treatment - being careful, using gentle rather than harsh cleansers, etc. - underscores that it is a body part that requires respect. Cf. Summer's Eve Douche Commercial - YouTube - a commercial for Summer's Eve which still sells douches even though they are harmful at worst and a waste of time and money at best. This is their current commercial - apparently, in the past they had a commercial with mom and daughter walking on the beach and talking about the fresh clean feeling. So that message - that vagina is by itself dirty and needs to be cleaned by commercial products to get a fresh feeling - is not something girls and women should hear. Since they do hear it, it is no surprise that they become self-conscious. |
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Which may deviate from the topic slightly, but so be it. If a woman actually really truly likes this guy, she's not going to reject him based on the size of his penis. If she does, she is a fool. For serious. Because it's not like size is the ONE AND ONLY determining factor of how pleasurable sex or sexual activities are. many people may believe that, these people are mistaken, and lack some serious communication and experimental abilities- both of which coincide with vaginal orgasms [which are a challenge, much more so than clitoral for some women, btw] just as much, if not more than, the size of a man's penis. Really good sex means really good communication. I mean, just my two cents. And some string from my pocket. uhhhmm.. ha sorry. Ok TOPIC: When I was younger, I was extremely worried about what everything looked like, if I smelled "ok", blah blah blah. This should have been a sign that i wasn't comfortable enough with my body for sex. It was a sign i didn't really heed. But, at this point... I kind of realize there is no perfect anything about anyone, and that's ok? Regarding taste, etc. I've actually had a couple people say [though in the course of casual conversation- as casual as this topic can be] that... having something to taste is much preferable to being squeaky clean. They'd rather a woman not wash herself completely away. *shrug* I've never been on the giving end, I can't say much to that. But I dig certain body smells, so I see the point. I tend to drift when i write. Apologies. Last edited by Anonymous24413; Aug 25, 2013 at 04:43 PM.. Reason: I forgot to write half the post? ha |
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#76
I had a Pap smear recently and my dr said "whoa, you have a VERY long vagina!"
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#77
I wish I had nothing at all just a perfect hole that I would be able to let urine out through. Labia and all that "good" stuff I find it too much sometimes but I do love my bacon strips. lol.
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it is not any kind of exact science - maybe I just have the right antennae for this kind of thing but I'm sure many other women have the same "sixth sense" too. What I'm trying to say is; while I agree that even the most promising bulge can be a bit of a lottery, it is often quite possible to get a very good idea of what's in the pants way before they come off. As for the original question; I guess I'm one of those truly blessed in that department. Not a hint of worries. |
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You are right I used to be a male porn star and they would do all kinds of things to make them look good.
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