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Jul 21, 2013 at 04:07 PM
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So you see my sexuality can be pretty complicated. I used think that sex was immoral, filthy, and disgusting. I used to think that sex should only be done for procreation and nothing more. Now i'm like sex can be allowed in a marriage if it's between the two partners. I still grapple with the thought of two men having sex with each other. I told people that I'm gay but at times i feel like i can be both bi because i notice girls sometimes. what do you think? there's one part of me that says i should support gays but there's another side that says i shouldn't because of what i have believed earlier and that my views should not be challenged...i should be strict and stuff like that? what do you guys think?
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Jul 22, 2013 at 12:51 PM
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IMO anytime religion puts very strict and repressive rules, this causes problems. Repression often has the opposite affect. Humans are sexual beings, so sex just for procreation is unreasonable. I had a brother who was gay(deceased now) and don't believe its wrong. Some teenagers feel confused about their sexuality, especially since you've view porn quite a bit -you might wonder why gay porn affects you a certain way. Some also believe sexuality is fluid but its not for everyone. If you haven't had a real life experience, this is another factor. Try not worry and don't let religion stress you out more.
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