just an aimless question about porn

Inedible · Aug 14, 2013 at 04:33 AM

And I thought that I was weird for thinking that the repetition was dull. It just isn't the same thing watching on a screen as being in the same place as a participant. To begin with, so far there isn't a type of pornography which can convey the pheromones.

tesseract49 · Aug 14, 2013 at 04:41 AM

I am sure that most porn contains more than just close-ups of penetration. I would get bored from watching just penetration. It is the shots of the woman's body and face cut in with it and the sound as well. Porn that, in my opinion, is worth watching would have a lot more than just close-ups of penetration.

hamster-bamster · Aug 14, 2013 at 05:37 AM

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And I thought that I was weird for thinking that the repetition was dull. It just isn't the same thing watching on a screen as being in the same place as a participant. To begin with, so far there isn't a type of pornography which can convey the pheromones.

I think that the beauty of the repetition in real life as a participant is that it is kind of similar each thrust, but at the same time not quite - at the same time, each thrust is a little different from the next, and that combination of sameness and difference is just so lovely. From what I have seen in porn (again, I did not look much because of boredom), they are not able to convey that sameness/difference occurring simultaneously. so it becomes sheer repetition and yes dull as you say.

besides pheromones, I guess porn does not convey tactile sensations - the feel of skin, hair, etc.

hamster-bamster · Aug 14, 2013 at 05:46 AM

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Originally Posted by tesseract49

I am sure that most porn contains more than just close-ups of penetration. I would get bored from watching just penetration. It is the shots of the woman's body and face cut in with it and the sound as well. Porn that, in my opinion, is worth watching would have a lot more than just close-ups of penetration.

low earthy kind of sounds? really low roaring kind of sounds? panting sounds? sounds of heavy breathing? I imagine you would like those kind of sounds that are genuine and not affected.

I would like that too.

As opposed to:

That porn that my partner showed me - there was a section with cartoonish kind of porn, and a cartoon woman with humongous breasts that she supported with her hands (which was hysterically funny and not ugly since they were clearly grotesque without trying to appear real) had a large black phallic looking object slide up and down between her breasts and then she started making squeaking sounds, which, I deduced, were meant to convey her climbing towards an orgasm, at which point I asked him to stop the video because I was not interested in learning how mice orgasm: the creature in the cartoon was literally squeaking!

Inedible · Aug 14, 2013 at 07:54 AM

In much of genuine mouse communication, the frequency is too high for us to hear.

Helium, maybe?

Cyran0 · Aug 14, 2013 at 06:46 PM

I do think women and men get turned on by different things. Men are very visual. We want to see. From "checking out" someone walking by to watching porn, the visual leads to arousal for us. Women, on the other hand, seem to be more tactile. Most women I know could care less about say seeing a penis but they actively enjoy feeling it. I've also noticed women talk about scent, which honestly would be the last thing I'd notice. As an aside, the fact that we're visual is why so many stupid guys get caught sending pics of their penis to women; they just don't get that women aren't triggered by the same stimuli.

I also think that porn is relatively utilitarian for a lot of guys. They just want ten or so minutes of video with sufficient visual imagery to get them off.

My last thought is that taste also really dictates what kind of porn people watch. Once they find the style and content that works for them they stick with it.

hamster-bamster · Aug 14, 2013 at 08:54 PM

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In much of genuine mouse communication, the frequency is too high for us to hear.

Oh, so I did the right thing stopping the video, as the voice was indeed climbing to those heights at which it would be out of the human range of perceiving sound frequencies

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Did not get the joke about helium.

hamster-bamster · Aug 14, 2013 at 09:01 PM

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As an aside, the fact that we're visual is why so many stupid guys get caught sending pics of their penis to women; they just don't get that women aren't triggered by the same stimuli.

That!

Plus, I can see how a picture of a man that includes his penis might be interesting to look at, but a picture of a penis separated from his owner REALLY does not interest me.

Before I figured out what I did wrong with Skype (my prefs were set to "Skype me!" so I was inviting attention - once I figured it out, I reset the prefs to the most private level which is the opposite of "Skype me!"), I did get those kinds of offers from men whose profile picture was a penis shot.

Then Harley added that I was not just attracting attention by having the "Skype ME!" setting, but also by having a picture of a white goose as my profile picture. He made the connection I had not been able to make on my own - a white goose is similar to a white swan, from where we go to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leda_(mythology), and then you know what happened - it is indeed very sexually suggestive to have a picture of a white goose on Skype. Apparently, all those guys wanting to share the pictures of their penises were well versed in Greek mythology.

Inedible · Aug 14, 2013 at 09:53 PM

Breathing in helium makes a person's voice high pitched and squeaky.

hamster-bamster · Aug 14, 2013 at 10:10 PM

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Breathing in helium makes a person's voice high pitched and squeaky.

got it. the porn cartoon's voice was probably computer-generated, but now I know how to do the same thing without computers - breathe in helium. Go to a grocery store, find the floral department where the helium balloons are sold, and ask the clerk to give me a bit of helium to breathe in. Then, record amateur porn with squeaky orgasm sounds

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Harley47 · Aug 15, 2013 at 01:30 AM

roflmao Heck of a memory you have on you Hammy!

I remember that thread...feels like ages ago.

hamster-bamster · Aug 20, 2013 at 03:38 AM

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roflmao Heck of a memory you have on you Hammy!

I remember that thread...feels like ages ago.

I remember everything anybody has ever written on here.

I never remember where I parked my car, where I left my keys, and... I am currently looking for my wallet that disappeared from my handbag on Saturday.

Luckily without cash, but the wallet itself was really good - good genuine leather, roomy, etc. Plus the trip to the DMV for a new DL is no fun... Plus I have receipts from Nordstrom rack and I need to return quite a few items, but I cannot since I do not have the receipts OR the credit card that was used to make the purchase.

Oh well...

People differ in how their brains work - I got a skewed memory for myself. If there is some content, I always remember it. If there is a location for a physical object - forget about it.

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Inedible Grand Member Member Since Jun 2011 Posts: 837 12	Aug 14, 2013 at 04:33 AM #41 And I thought that I was weird for thinking that the repetition was dull. It just isn't the same thing watching on a screen as being in the same place as a participant. To begin with, so far there isn't a type of pornography which can convey the pheromones.
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tesseract49 Member Member Since Jul 2013 Posts: 66 10 36 hugs given	Aug 14, 2013 at 04:41 AM #42 I am sure that most porn contains more than just close-ups of penetration. I would get bored from watching just penetration. It is the shots of the woman's body and face cut in with it and the sound as well. Porn that, in my opinion, is worth watching would have a lot more than just close-ups of penetration.
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Inedible Grand Member Member Since Jun 2011 Posts: 837 12	Aug 14, 2013 at 07:54 AM #45 In much of genuine mouse communication, the frequency is too high for us to hear. Helium, maybe?
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Inedible Grand Member Member Since Jun 2011 Posts: 837 12	Aug 14, 2013 at 09:53 PM #49 Breathing in helium makes a person's voice high pitched and squeaky.
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Harley47 Grand Poohbah Member Since Feb 2012 Location: North Carolina, USA Posts: 1,957 12 411 hugs given	Aug 15, 2013 at 01:30 AM #51 roflmao Heck of a memory you have on you Hammy! I remember that thread...feels like ages ago. __________________ The world suffers alot. Not because of the violence of bad people, but because of the silence of good people.- Napoleon Bonaparte
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