[doggiedo]

I date men (I'm a female) and am attracted to them to an extent. I am not emotionally attracted to women, but I find them incredibly sexy and beautiful. When I look at porn I usually stick with girl/girl porn and can leave the guys out totally. But I've never dated a woman. Idk of I'm gay or bi. Someone told me once (he is gay) that its easy to figure out- its whatever sex turns you on when you masterbate. So for me, it's women. So am I gay?,

[Ladyzero]

I think you can appreciate the female form in porn or whatever. Doesn't make you gay or lesbian. I am totally straight , and I love looking at porn with my man. Looking at women in porn excites me but I'm not lesbian. Seeing another female is just like seeing your bits, pleasured. Just enjoy.

[LiteraryLark]

I watch porn of women giving blowjobs though I fantasize about men giving blowjobs.

Fantasies are very much unlike reality, and sexuality is not black and white. There is more to sexuality than just "I like men/women". I wouldn't label yourself if you are unsure.

[AppalachianAxis]

I'm certainly for trying not to give oneself a label but I also understand trying to come to a better understanding of yourself.

I'm in a somewhat similar boat. It's awkward for me to write, but over the last few years I've found myself looking at more and more gay oriented material when I do look at pornography. This is strange for me because I have never found myself emotionally or romantically attracted to any men at any point in my life.
Also, I snap out of it the moment I see a guy's face. As soon as I see a face, I'm just like "Ew, gross: You're a person.... you're a guy!"

So, yeah, I don't think people should be in a huge rush to designate themselves as this or that. Just be you.

[Inedible]

I have a friend who is gay. He mentioned that it would have been nice if we could look at gay porn together, but it was too obvious that I didn't get the appeal. It halfway crossed my mind to suggest that bisexual material was something we could both get behind. In a manner of speaking.

In general in hetero pornography, it seems like the standards are really lax for the men. A lot of them are older and fatter than the female stars of the show. They are almost treated like inter-changeable tools. So it makes sense to look at the women more. Even for women. That's where your attention is being directed.

[Webgoji]

My wife loves lesbian pornography, but is as far from gay as a person can get. As Dr. Skipper said, it's not black and white.