[Lonely_90]

I have been in a committed relationship for almost 9 months, yes we have our ups and downs but we love each other. I'm 23 and he is 24, neither one of us are virgins, and we both stil live at home (actively searching for a place) Usually when I meet a guy he wants to get strait to the point, if not the 1st night, then after the first few weeks. And I believed that he would be no different. When he first invited me to his house I was nervous,but he didn't try anything, I was surprised. For about 2 months all I could get was a pop kiss. We spent all of our time together, I would leave his house at 12-1 at night, and be back the next day. Eventually he got a job where I work and so we spent even more time together, I would leave his house around 10-11 and be back at 4am snuggled in the bed until work. At the end of May beginning of June, I started staying there every night. I would come home in the mornings and get ready for work then go to work. That was the only time we were apart and he was already at work.

My parents went on vacation for a week so we stayed at my house, I have a pool and it was summer. My sister was home a few days, but we had about 2 that were just us.

We have done other things but we have not actually had sex. People on here have suggested he is cheating on me. That's why he dose not want to have sex with me. It has brought questions to my mind that were not there before, and I am having bad anxiety because of it. I have asked him before why , and his answer is believable. When the time is right it will happen.

[MotownJohnny]

Maybe you are reading too much into it. Is he perhaps religiously or socially conservative and was raised to believe sex should be reserved for marriage or at least very long term committed relationships?

[DivineLove]

Have you spoken with your boyfriend about this issue yet? This is what I would consider first.

Greets and love