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Upwards and Onwards!
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Dec 17, 2013 at 02:27 PM
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I have been with 2 women. One was a Proper relationship, the other we had feelings for each other and were physical, but we didn't commit to anything.
I've just broken up with my boyfriend of 8 years and am taking stock of my life. I think I need to be honest with myself and admit that my best relationships have been with other women. I'm battling to consider myself a lesbian, because I am very analytical and my analytical brain tells me not to go down that road - it complicates matters. But I don't think that's what my heart feels. I felt comfortable considering myself bi. But this is different. I know I shouldn't worry about titles, but it almost feel like I need it in order to find some direction in my life. I'm a huge confused mess. __________________ "I'd rather attempt to do something great and fail than to attempt to do nothing and succeed. Robert H. Schuller" Current dx: Bipolar Disorder Unspecified Current Meds: Epitec (Lamotrigine) 300mg, Solian 50mg, Seroquel 25mg PRN, Metformin 500mg, Klonopin prn |
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Dec 17, 2013 at 06:40 PM
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I know you feel like you want to find your place and classifying yourself in some category helps you feek maybe more secure. What you need to ask yourself is what you want. What are you attracted to? What do you like about men/women? In the end, I think answering those questions is more important than the label.
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Dec 18, 2013 at 02:58 AM
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Thanks for replying something. This is stressing me out so bad
__________________ "I'd rather attempt to do something great and fail than to attempt to do nothing and succeed. Robert H. Schuller" Current dx: Bipolar Disorder Unspecified Current Meds: Epitec (Lamotrigine) 300mg, Solian 50mg, Seroquel 25mg PRN, Metformin 500mg, Klonopin prn |
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Dec 18, 2013 at 09:55 PM
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Dec 20, 2013 at 03:08 PM
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No, not really. Catching up with some guy friends to see how I feel. I don't any lesbians or how to meet them, so I'm a bit lost
__________________ "I'd rather attempt to do something great and fail than to attempt to do nothing and succeed. Robert H. Schuller" Current dx: Bipolar Disorder Unspecified Current Meds: Epitec (Lamotrigine) 300mg, Solian 50mg, Seroquel 25mg PRN, Metformin 500mg, Klonopin prn |
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