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LiteraryLark · Mar 02, 2014 at 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by RTerroni

I'm not trying to be offensive I am just saying there are other options (like I mentioned earlier going to see a sex surrogate).

You think blow up dolls are creepy but see nothing wrong in paying a woman to sell her body to you to make you feel more like a man?

allme · Mar 02, 2014 at 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by ak482

One I paid and she never showed up. The other I emailed and told her I was a virgin and wanted intercourse. She told me no. I'm looking for no strings attached, but they all want experienced guys. Thus I'm looking for anything to get practice, but it may be as close as I get to sex.

I work with escorts and porn stars arranging bookings etc and unless you're making an international booking, a lady will never ask for cash before arrival! I am surprised you were turned away for being a virgin....I've never come across this in the 4 yrs working in the industry.

Anyway, good luck!

allme · Mar 02, 2014 at 02:03 PM

And plus believe me, none of these women care how experienced you are! Just sounds like you have been unlucky or looking in the wrong places!

Mar 02, 2014 at 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by allme

I work with escorts and porn stars arranging bookings etc and unless you're making an international booking, a lady will never ask for cash before arrival! I am surprised you were turned away for being a virgin....I've never come across this in the 4 yrs working in the industry.

Anyway, good luck!

If anything, they prefer a virgin because he's likely to be thought of as 1. Less dangerous and perhaps a nervy type of man 2. Won't have an STD.

And most escorts do not want STD's and get themselves checked regularly.

RTerroni · Mar 02, 2014 at 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

You think blow up dolls are creepy but see nothing wrong in paying a woman to sell her body to you to make you feel more like a man?

Sex Surrogates are not the same as prostitutes though.

Mar 02, 2014 at 02:21 PM

I don't think it's creepy for a man to pay for sex. I see it as no different then paying for any other service like a haircut.

allme · Mar 02, 2014 at 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Lycanthrope

If anything, they prefer a virgin because he's likely to be thought of as 1. Less dangerous and perhaps a nervy type of man 2. Won't have an STD.

And most escorts do not want STD's and get themselves checked regularly.

Yes this is true! Which is why I am surprised he was turned away for being a virgin.

allme · Mar 02, 2014 at 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Lycanthrope

I don't think it's creepy for a man to pay for sex. I see it as no different then paying for any other service like a haircut.

No it's not creepy at all! Sometimes ppl just want sex without having to go to the trouble of meeting someone etc. Its just a bit of fun. I have dealt with many clients and many escorts and porn star escorts and they are just every day ppl that enjoy sex!

Spiced · Mar 02, 2014 at 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Lycanthrope

I don't think it's creepy for a man to pay for sex. I see it as no different then paying for any other service like a haircut.

I don't see why it's illegal.

As soon as there's an active and recording video camera there it's suddenly legal, and the actors earn money from their recording.

Paying a man or a woman to provide you sexual favours is no different than treating yourself to a chocolate bar at the local shop in my eyes. It's something that's obviously going to make you happy, and why should anybody else care what (or who) you spend your money on?

Just another idiotic social law that has found itself unwritten over time in the book of other idiotic social laws.

allme · Mar 02, 2014 at 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Spiced

I don't see why it's illegal.

As soon as there's an active and recording video camera there it's suddenly legal, and the actors earn money from their recording.

Paying a man or a woman to provide you sexual favours is no different than treating yourself to a chocolate bar at the local shop in my eyes. It's something that's obviously going to make you happy, and why should anybody else care what (or who) you spend your money on?

Just another idiotic social law that has found itself unwritten over time in the book of other idiotic social laws.

Agreed.....

LiteraryLark · Mar 02, 2014 at 02:45 PM

I see it as incredibly degrading and oppressive.

LiteraryLark · Mar 02, 2014 at 02:46 PM

Considering how many people got fired up over whether someone masturbates while watching porn, I don't see why paying for sex would be a healthier alternative. Women in porn get paid, but it's degrading the things men do to women in porn. Women who get paid to have sex are selling their bodies to make a man feel more like a man.

Mar 02, 2014 at 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

I see it as incredibly degrading and oppressive.

Well that's why you're not one...

unaluna · Mar 02, 2014 at 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

I see it as incredibly degrading and oppressive.

Why should you personally get to decide what is okay for other people? If youre not okay with it, dont do it. Does this mean you have changed your mind regarding your fetish? Cuz a lot of people got on your case too. Sauce for the goose, sauce for the gander. People in glass houses etc.

allme · Mar 02, 2014 at 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

I see it as incredibly degrading and oppressive.

You have no idea what you are talking about. I don't know you but you come across as quite young.

allme · Mar 02, 2014 at 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

Women who get paid to have sex are selling their bodies to make a man feel more like a man.

This may be the case for 'some' men but a lot of my clients crave companionship.

Before shouting your mouth, please do some research into the field in which you know nothing about.

RTerroni · Mar 02, 2014 at 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

Then explain to me how selling your body is not degrading?

Prostitution means that you are doing it strictly for the other person's enjoyment.

Sexual Surrogacy means that you are doing it as a learning tool for the other person.

allme · Mar 02, 2014 at 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

Then explain to me how selling your body is not degrading?

If it's between 2 adults with mutual consent, what is the problem? The ladies I know love men and love what they do. They get treated like princesses and showered with gifts and most importantly, treated with respect. If they wasn't then the man would be told where to go which has very rarely happened.

I have seen you around being argumentative and I will not get sucked into one of your dramas. I will not comment anymore about this with a child.

allme · Mar 02, 2014 at 03:15 PM

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Originally Posted by RTerroni

Prostitution means that you are doing it strictly for the other person's enjoyment

You'll actually find the women 'can' enjoy it too.

Mar 02, 2014 at 03:17 PM

I don't get offended by someone watching porn, however I will bring up the negative affects on a man's health, physically and mentally. And it has many negative affects.

Paying for sex isn't ideal either. But it is real sex unlike masturbating for hours on a screen and developing unhealthy escalation to perhaps more serious and sometimes (for some men) illegal material.

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allme Grand Magnate Member Since Apr 2010 Location: England Posts: 3,102 14 1,123 hugs given	Mar 02, 2014 at 02:03 PM #43 And plus believe me, none of these women care how experienced you are! Just sounds like you have been unlucky or looking in the wrong places! __________________ ’’In the end, it’s not going to matter how many breaths you took, but how many moments took your breath away’’
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LiteraryLark Crowned "The Good Witch" Member Since Jun 2009 Location: Wonderland Posts: 11,535 (SuperPoster!) 14 1,318 hugs given	Mar 02, 2014 at 02:45 PM #51 I see it as incredibly degrading and oppressive.
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LiteraryLark Crowned "The Good Witch" Member Since Jun 2009 Location: Wonderland Posts: 11,535 (SuperPoster!) 14 1,318 hugs given	Mar 02, 2014 at 02:46 PM #52 Considering how many people got fired up over whether someone masturbates while watching porn, I don't see why paying for sex would be a healthier alternative. Women in porn get paid, but it's degrading the things men do to women in porn. Women who get paid to have sex are selling their bodies to make a man feel more like a man.
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