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#81
I know you have indicated on this thread and elsewhere that money is tight, so I assume that's why you haven't seen a sexual surrogate (or taken that trip to Nevada). But truthfully, you've indicated that you're so desperate on this issue that if you don't lose your virginity by age 35, you're ready to end your life. If things are that urgent, I wonder if you'd consider getting a second job, borrowing money, looking into credit options, etc.
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Many escorts leave a number on their website. Just contact the number and arrange a time to meet. Don't bother messaging saying you're a virgin and nervous and all this stuff because some don't like being messaged. Contact by phone and perhaps mention it if you have to, but I'd avoid it if I were you.
Also look for rep. The good escorts will have many good reviews. If you see an escort with no rep avoid because although they may well be genuine and just starting a profile, there's also some scams out there. If you see one with many good reviews and the odd negative review that's fine, but of course avoid one that has many negative rep. |
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If you want to PM me I can recommend a couple of US escort agencies. I would recommend an agency over independent as most agencies require a verification picture. Some independent sites put up fake pictures.
It seems another thread has been started re escorts. I am disappointed some ppl want to throw oil on the fire. __________________ ’’In the end, it’s not going to matter how many breaths you took, but how many moments took your breath away’’ |
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lol Sign out for one day, topic goes to hell in a handbasket.
What were we arguing? I'm really not seeing any line of logic in here that would qualify such...vehemence. I'm not tracking. Not trying to rekindle whatever it was that happened, but...wow. So, anyway, blow up dolls. I promised I'd look around for some data...I have not gotten around to that yet, but I'll do what I can for ya OP. __________________ The world suffers alot. Not because of the violence of bad people, but because of the silence of good people.- Napoleon Bonaparte |
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Maybe she just felt guilty about taking your virginity. If it were me I'd be afraid to take someone's virginity because I'd want it to be as good of an experience as possible.
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I just want my virginity gone before I get into a relationship because no woman I know wants to put up with a "boy" my age who has no experience and has to be taught.
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If I were in your position, I wouldn't hesitate to employ a sex worker. I'm reminded of my father, who taught me that sex was "beautiful," to use his word, but only if you were married. I've always wondered what he would expect me to do if I didn't ever find someone to marry. Be a virgin forever? He wasn't a stupid man, but those were sure stupid words.
I live in a community which has a popular weekly newspaper with hundreds of classified ads for every kind of sex worker you can imagine, and I have no doubt that some of them are attractive, skilled, disease-free professionals who really like sex but don't want the encumbrances of a relationship. If I weren't married to a woman who makes sure I get enough sex, with her or solo, I would sure as hell find a good professional woman. Sorry, Dad! Other |
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Why have you resigned yourself to never having sex or being in a relationship? You should try online dating, or go to a bar? Virginity is just a concept - read up on sex and learn some tips about it, and work on changing your way of thinking. You can't say that "no one" would ever want to have sex with you because you're a virgin. You haven't met everyone in the world. I think that if you became more confident and not so down on yourself about being a virgin, someone would like that about you. Being a virgin does not make you a "boy" - your attitude about it does. I hope this helps.
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I've also been on a no-strings-attached site, and I already get jumpy and jittery when I message and e-mail someone with some dirty talk and fantasies. If I'm that jittery now, how bad will I be when it comes? And if I'm that anxious, it's surely a giveaway. __________________ "Start perfect, get better every day" Good for absolutely nothing & doing even less Reality is not realistic |
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that was what we call a "cash and dash" she knew you were a newbie and gotcha
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One thing I would recommend is that you need to stop worrying that everyone knows you are a virgin because you are nervous, don't know what to do, etc.
When I was younger and first started having sex there were a lot of awkward fumbling moments on both sides. It didn't matter if it was the first time or the fifth. The first time with someone new was always a bit nervous. I have had sex with people who have plenty of experience who didn't know what they were doing and sex with beginners who did really well. Luck, W |
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