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Default Mar 25, 2014 at 07:16 AM
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Would/could you be in a serious relationship with someone whose sexual history included orgies and multiples?

Or is the past, the past...

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Default Mar 25, 2014 at 08:51 AM
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Yeah, I would. The past is the past. The only concern I would have is that orgies and multiples are usually considered "at-risk" behavior so I would ask her to be sure she hadn't picked up any VD's.

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Default Mar 25, 2014 at 09:22 AM
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The past is the past, for me. I gather that my significant other had some wild times back in the day. As long as my partner isn't looking to engage in orgies or multiples now, I'm fine with that. (I also have nothing against orgies/multiples per se, it's just not for me. I feel quite sure that I couldn't handle the emotional ramifications and jealousy that would arise for me in such a situation.)
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Default Mar 25, 2014 at 02:44 PM
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In a word- No

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Default Mar 25, 2014 at 03:37 PM
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Yes, of course, how could anybody be so closed minded as to be blinded by the past. We all do things when we're young. People change.

Besides, there's nothing inherrantly wrong with having sex with multiple people present.
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Default Mar 25, 2014 at 04:01 PM
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I would be hypocritical to care because I have had threesomes a few times.

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Default Mar 25, 2014 at 05:00 PM
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no can't do, too much experience for me to handle or process.

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Default Mar 25, 2014 at 05:16 PM
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I am looking for someone to share a future, not a past.

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Default Mar 25, 2014 at 05:58 PM
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Would it be a shock? Probably. Would it be a deal breaker? Absolutely not. Webgoji and I share the same concern about the risks, but otherwise? I'm not going to judge based on her past.

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