[Webgoji]

As of late, my wife and I have added sexting to our relationship, just to get things going before we even see each other. It also adds a proverbial feather to her cap since we'll sext while we're at work and it makes her coworkers jealous that she gets dirty messages and such in the middle of the day.

We were watching some Dr. Phil last night (come on ... admit you laugh at him too) and he mentioned to a guy that "Look, women don't want pictures of that."

(Shades of Brett Favre? Brett Favre's sexting scandal - The Week )

And it dawned on me

While I've asked Mrs. Webgoji to send me naughty pictures and I've sent them in return ... she never said she wanted them! Now I feel bad ...

So my question is have you ever participated in sexting and ... were you sure it was mutual?

Sexting with your real or current partner does not really do it as much, you need to sext with another person, someone online or a friend of your wife, forcing sexting does not work, it only works when it kind of just happens random. Much more pleasure when it is random

[RTerroni]

No, its just a texting version of phone sex

I guess I'm different....I enjoy it.
There's something about the written word plus my imagination the totally does it for me.

Men are more visual than women, so if she doesn't "ask" for a pic of your junk don't be offended by that. It's just a gender thing.
But DO tell her, in great detail, what she's doing for you

Just make sure you're dialing the right number....

[LiteraryLark]

I've never sexted. At my age--even in college--if things get ugly between me and the guy I'm sexting, he can use it as blackmail or share them with his friends or on the internet. And I would never want that.

Was in a long distance relationship for two years it was kinda necessary lol

With the right people it can certainly help bring a little extra to the table so to speak.

A hint though (I've had this discussion with a few other female friends ) most of us prefer a "wrapped" package. A trouser bulge can be more arousing than an outright flesh shot.

[Malixer112]

Originally Posted by sophiesmom

I guess I'm different....I enjoy it.
There's something about the written word plus my imagination the totally does it for me.

Men are more visual than women, so if she doesn't "ask" for a pic of your junk don't be offended by that. It's just a gender thing.
But DO tell her, in great detail, what she's doing for you

Just make sure you're dialing the right number....

Bottom line=perfection. But also crucial. Don't want that getting out to family...just saying...
Anyway, answering the thread question--yes, I have sexted. I do it, too. Not to be weird or anything, but it helps when I can 't see the person. For example, if I can't see the face, it makes for a much more interesting round of sexting.

[Malixer112]

Originally Posted by RTerroni

No, its just a texting version of phone sex

YES!!! I love this quote! I have experience with phone sex, too.
#WantingItRightNow

[Malixer112]

Originally Posted by DylanP

Sexting with your real or current partner does not really do it as much, you need to sext with another person, someone online or a friend of your wife, forcing sexting does not work, it only works when it kind of just happens random. Much more pleasure when it is random

That all depends on the person's mindset of that...

Malixer, what was your phone number again?

(JUST JOKING PEOPLE!!!!)

[Malixer112]

Originally Posted by sophiesmom

Malixer, what was your phone number again?

(JUST JOKING PEOPLE!!!!)

(blushing hard)
I could give it to you over PM if you really want it.

[Malixer112]

Originally Posted by BeteNoire

Was in a long distance relationship for two years it was kinda necessary lol

With the right people it can certainly help bring a little extra to the table so to speak.

A hint though (I've had this discussion with a few other female friends ) most of us prefer a "wrapped" package. A trouser bulge can be more arousing than an outright flesh shot.

Omg I love a wrapped package. It brings out the mystery of what it could potentially be...

[Angel of Bedlam]

Originally Posted by Webgoji

As of late, my wife and I have added sexting to our relationship, just to get things going before we even see each other. It also adds a proverbial feather to her cap since we'll sext while we're at work and it makes her coworkers jealous that she gets dirty messages and such in the middle of the day.

We were watching some Dr. Phil last night (come on ... admit you laugh at him too) and he mentioned to a guy that "Look, women don't want pictures of that."

(Shades of Brett Favre? Brett Favre's sexting scandal - The Week )

And it dawned on me

While I've asked Mrs. Webgoji to send me naughty pictures and I've sent them in return ... she never said she wanted them! Now I feel bad ...

So my question is have you ever participated in sexting and ... were you sure it was mutual?

Sexting is very common! I know my boyfriend and I sexted more at the beginning of our relationship (although it was all PG-13), and it just kept it fun. For me, it's a turn on when he tells me exactly what he wants to do to me, and in return, I'm sure it revs his engine too.

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[medicalfox]

I do it all the time with my boyfriend. Generally girls don't like d-ck pics, but they like when guys are shirtless and flexing their muscles. Everyone has their own taste though, ask your wife if she likes your pics and if not see what she likes.

[Harley47]

I was in a long distance relationship for awhile, so...when that's all ya got, it's all ya got. Never did pictures of anything I wouldn't want to show up on Facebook though...just in case.