Turn Ons for Wives/Hubands, BFs/GFs?

Can anyone out there, preferably a married or in a relationship male, tell me if these things would turn them on on a scale of 1-10, 10 being hottest (trying to figure out what my hubby would statistly like):

1. Being woken up by a blow job in the middle of the night.

2. "Naughty" lingerie

3. Thinking of your significant other as a "bad girl" or "naughty"

4. Thinking of your significant other as "dirty"

6. Experimenting with toys

7. Dirty talk

8. Deep kissing

9. Your significant other on top

10. Your significant other telling you exactly what you want

11. **** sex with your significant other

Sorry, guys. It's the scientist in me. I set everything up like a damn experiment. Lol.

According to my husband (this was fun by the way)

1. 10
2. 8
3 3
4. 1
6. 2
7. 7
8. 9
9. 7
10. 6
11.5

It won't let you put A-sex? Wow. Lol. My hubby and I used a book we got about 8 years ago that has questions like this. It was fun and helps learn more about yourself and your partner and it is fun

Here's the book in case you want to find it. We just opened it lastnight and didn't realize how much it teaches you, and we thought we knew everything since we've always been super comfy in our sexuality since we met ten years ago and thought we knew everything. It's a large, kind of thick paperback with lots of photography but it's done tastefully.

The Intimate Guide to Sexual Fulfillment: Pure Sex by Anne Hooper. ISBN is 0007679971

Here's a link so you can order (I think it's out of print but you can still get brand new from half.com and it's half the price we paid):Half.com: Pure Sex : An Intimate Guide to Sexual Fulfillment by Anne Hooper (2003, Paperback)(9780007679973): Anne Hooper: Books

And one of my hubby's college texts that I read: The Guide to Gettig It On (this was a huge help for me)
Half.com: Guide to Getting It On! : Best Little Sex Guide in the Whole Wide World by Paul Joannides (2007, Paperback, Revised)(9781885535696): Paul Joannides: Books

Oh and I'll post my hubby's replies also:

1. 9
2. 7
3. 6
4. 6
6. 7
7. 6
8. 5
9. 7
10. 7
11. 8

I thought the **** was for oral sex.

#1 kind of covered that for both parties. But no, it's the big terrifying A. :P

I did add two questions, 12 & 13. I'm graphing results to prove my own hypothesis that most men like the same things the most. It's proving to be wrong. Lol. Everyone has a code assigned so I don't really know who's is who's except yours is missing a more accurate answer to question 11 now that you know what it is and 12 & 13.

12. Blowjob or manual stimulation on whoever is driving.

13. Lights on.

This is my own personal study. I don't want you to be alarmed. I'm just had a hypothesis and decided to test it the best way I knew how.

1. No, I don't want it. My cat already wakes me up in the middle of the night with his kneading.

2. No, too much pressure for her to be sexy.

3. Yes, I like bad girls.

4. No, I like her to be clean.

6. Toys don't interest me.

7. Dirty talk yes I want this

8. Deep kissing I want.

9. I like her on top; dominant women turn me on.

10. Don't understand the question

11. Ditto. Question was censored.

I use this site on my phone so it's hard to get everything perfect but #10 meant to say "your SO telling you want he/she wants in bed.

#11 is either A-sex, not oral. Not sure why they block that put in a sex forum but ok?

I have once read a story about a guy - a blue collar Midwesterner with simple tastes and a straightforward manner of talking - and he said that when he was woken up with a blowjob, he interpreted it to mean that god loved him.

I thought it was quite funny.

I take it, the Midwesterner guy would put 10+ to your option 1.

Haha! That's funny and that was a 10 for my hubby too. Lol

Here are my answers to your questions:

[QUOTE=Newbie12;3978735]Can anyone out there, preferably a married or in a relationship male, tell me if these things would turn them on on a scale of 1-10, 10 being hottest (trying to figure out what my hubby would statistly like):

1. Being woken up by a blow job in the middle of the night. 1

2. "Naughty" lingerie 6

3. Thinking of your significant other as a "bad girl" or "naughty" 9 (I spank the naughty girl. She loves being spanked when I'm doing it from behind)

4. Thinking of your significant other as "dirty" (9 I like to imagine that the neighbors see her nude. She is nude, too. I like her walk around nude. My g/f is a little older than I am; This and #3 are things we enjoy. My g/f loves to see me nude. I love to tell her how nice her parts are; they really are, too, really nice...)

6. Experimenting with toys 3 (are cameras "toys." She likes to see herself on camera and video; she gets turned on; mirrors, too;

7. Dirty talk 6

8. Deep kissing 7

9. Your significant other on top 4

10. Your significant other telling you exactly what you want 1

11. **** sex with your significant other (As I am not quite sure what the asterisks signify, I shall write my own: giving her mind-blowing orgasms one after the other. That's my favorite. She loves me to do that; we make love very frequently; if you meant to write "sex from behind and you-know-where" then yes, that is something we sometimes do with great enjoyment as it turns her on terribly and for me to spank her a little while doing it.)