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Sep 05, 2014 at 06:34 AM
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I was reading an article about it and wanted to ask your experience with this.
Can man be turned on by talking or it happens only to women or am i exception? What phrases, questions turn you on?  It happens to me very often when someone is talking about stuff like that even if im not attracted to this person... Wondering if it happens to other people too. |
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Sep 05, 2014 at 06:10 PM
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I think it can be a turn-on for both men and women.
Nope, not going there. No info about what works for yours truly. 
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Sep 05, 2014 at 07:51 PM
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Absolutely ... but I feel uncomfortable divulging details.
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Sep 05, 2014 at 09:10 PM
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I think it's all about personal preference. Sometimes, I like to be told I'm a good girl. Other times, I like to be told I've been very bad...I won't get into any more detail than that; but depending on my mood and mindset, it either clicks everything the right way or it shuts it all down completely.
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Sep 07, 2014 at 01:22 AM
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My first name, pronounced with a special intonation that conveys the depth of feeling on the part of a boy or man... a huge turn-on. Turn-on is not the right term, no... rather, it is just one of the most moving experiences out there for me.
I do not understand why people talk dirty. I wanted to understand and back when I was on OKC, I tried, a couple of times, to have what can be dubbed phone sex to get a grasp on what other people were doing. I found it totally stupid. I mean, really. Why would these guys want to call me dirty words for their own sake is beyond me; from my end, it was stupid and a little amusing. I cannot understand how it can be a turn-on, but I also, on the other hand, cannot understand why some women find it what is called "degrading". Weird and kind of dumb, yes, but degrading - no. I think I simply do not have enough imagination to appreciate those things. I do not mean to say that people who do that are stupid (and especially one of them, outside of that, seemed totally reasonable and an interesting person) but just that these things seem stupid, subjectively, to me. |
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Sep 17, 2014 at 04:20 PM
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I like when my hubby dirty talks to me while having sex... Other than that, it's never done much for me.
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