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Default Sep 16, 2014 at 10:59 AM
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about my sexual orientation. I'm not gay (I'm female), and I hate sex with men. There is something called Asexual, but I don't think I'm that either. Does anyone here understand or have knowledge about these type of issues?
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about my sexual orientation. I'm not gay (I'm female), and I hate sex with men. There is something called Asexual, but I don't think I'm that either. Does anyone here understand or have knowledge about these type of issues?
Hello debdeb24: We have a Transgender Forum here on PsychCentral. There you will encounter quite a few members who are knowledgeable with regard to sexual orientation issues. I believe, if you were to post there a bit more with regard to your concerns, you would receive some caring & knowledgeable responses. You may also find someone with whom you could correspond via Private Message, if you prefer. (Tell 'em The Skeezyks sent you!)

Oh, and by the way, welcome to PsychCentral! We're glad you're here!
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Thank you so much. I will do that. I really do want some answers.
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Default Sep 17, 2014 at 03:38 PM
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You can be straight and dislike sex - in the same way that you can be gay or bi and hate sex. Attraction isn't just sexual it's about romantic feelings too. If relationships aren't your bag either then that's fine as well. Sexuality isn't considered black and white these days - a lot of people claim to have shifts in who they're attracted too as well as having varying sexual appetites. I know that doesn't help much if you're desperately looking for an answers but if you want to know purely for the sake of knowing you'll drive yourself crazy. It's best to move on and just see what happens, there's no pressure to confirm these days and hypotheticals aren't all that helpful when it comes to this topic anyway. A lot of the time it's about experiencing and garnering knowledge that way. I hope you find peace with the situation one day.
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