Does letting women get on top make you less of a man?

In a way you are overanalyzing, but in a way you are underanalyzing. Let us try this: if woman on top makes you less of a man, and woman on the bottom makes you and alpha male, what do all sideways position make you? A couple of equals? What about sitting, standing, etc.?

See - if you actually try to analyze, you will see that your train of thought takes you to an illogical or absurd conclusion, which means that your premise is wrong.

Well, I don't know how can I thank all of you for your responses.
Everyone of you made me see that I'm focusing on something irrelevant.

I should stop thinking about it and work on other issues.
This thread will remain open, I guess, as long as it's useful for anyone who's wondering about the same kind of matter. But it's not even as interesting, is it?

Thank you again! You are all awesome!

PS: Yes, my current mood is "cynical", but please, do not read all I've just written in that key. I'm cynical about other stuff.

Only if you have an inferiority complex...but gender roles are always at their strongest with these sorts of topics. It's pathetic. People are entitled to do whatever they want...women can feel more in control on top and better able to reach orgasm but that shouldn't lead to men feeling emasculated and women feeling guilt over the same.

TryingStill,

I recognize from your previous thread that you have found yourself in a situation where for years your sexual focus was solely on yourself. Even recently your sexual activity was in rediscovering yourself. As part of learning the new "you", it will include establishing your own "role identity". Perhaps you will become comfortable with a sexual partnership where you are both working towards mutual satisfaction. It will take time.

I know I have had many hurdles to overcome, and I became sooooo focussed on my lack of feeling and inability to orgasm, that I was avoiding sex and intimacy to avoid the disappointment. I've learned that my lack of feeling in combination with a proper dose of Viagra can mean the world of difference in bed. My focussed has changed from "how am I going to orgasm" to "I hope I have enough energy to last as long a her". I realized that I was getting a lot of sexual satisfaction from my wife getting satisfied. I found that I was very happy to let me wife get on top and "ride" me. There was little chance of me ejaculating before she was ready, and she's able to max-out her sexual pleasure.
I hope you are able to modify your feelings to turn these thoughts into positives. Whether you view it as "her servicing you" or "you servicing her" while she's on top, whatever make you feel comfortable and allows you to focus on the mutual aspects of sexual pleasure.