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Member Since Oct 2014
Location: Missouri
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Oct 19, 2014 at 09:39 PM
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I'm a male who wishes to discuss my sexual fantasies with my female counselor. Will that be taboo? Not only for a male talking about that to a female, but taboo in general?
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Big Poppa
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Oct 20, 2014 at 02:29 AM
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Nope. She should be fine with that.
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Location: Canada
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Oct 20, 2014 at 01:36 PM
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Speak away! It's your T's job to listen and help. You can only heal and improve by being honest and forthcoming.
I've told things to my T that I don't tell my wife. We all have difficulties talking about sex to anyone. I find it hard because I am married with kids, and I'm bisexual and I've grown to be more attracted to men as I've gotten older. The last thing my wife needs to hear (though I've told her at least once before) is that I would prefer to suck off guys than have sex with her, though I would prefer to do that with her. It's a bit of a release to be able to talk about your sexual fantasies with someone who doesn't judge. It helps you understand and deal with them. So if your T doesn't like to speak about it, then you need to find another T. |
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Poohbah
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Location: Cincinnati
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Oct 20, 2014 at 03:05 PM
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You're good, I have to do it with mine. Even though I wouldn't like to, it's all ok. I mean my therapist is hot honestly speaking, but I like to say whatever I need to say to get my time worth it for my therapy.
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Member Since Oct 2014
Location: Brisbane, Queensland, Australia
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Oct 22, 2014 at 10:20 PM
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I've just started speaking to my T about sex. I'm bi as well
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