mmm sex

i miss it :-(

a love affair... thats what i need...

;-)

(something to control for a while)

i'm so %#@&#! transparent.

sigh.

i hate myself

wah

a really great VBrator......and you are set.......

(something to control, hee hee)

lol

lol. i don't think i'll be getting one of those (for a couple of reasons)...

firstly because they are NOISY and my neighbours are NOSEY.

secondly because...

this isn't a moral thing...

but i do have a concern about training ones body to have a sexual response to OBJECTS. i masterbate... but i do have a bit of difficulty with the idea of using an implement.

though yeah, there are limitations with hands ;-)

though... is it about treating a person as an object??? little fun... we'll both like it i promise ;-)

the right ones aren't noisey......

i don't see it as "training" your body to respond to objects. i see it as a partner/substitute when you need it. you can even name it..........

girl, this is 2007!!!!

well...

i guess i have the same emotional response to the thought of my partner using a blow up doll or an artificial vagina as a 'partner substitute'...

i'm not morally objecting.

i'm certainly not objecting to masterbating...

but i don't much like the thought of training ones body to sexually respond to objects. whether it is 2007 or 5007 or whatever... i just find the notion a little icky.

what i really need is an actual live person methinks... sigh. no contenders...

:-(

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alexandra_k said:
i miss it :-(

a love affair... thats what i need...

;-)

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I could use a love affair myself. I'm tired of hugging my pillow.

that is why I am glad I am not truck driving anymore. I don't have to hug my armless legless companion. my pillow

I'm sure there are people who use electric cords and whatnot, but there are specifically devices made to provide these shocks safely (as much as they can be safe; they do come with warnings--which I know from reading about them in catalogs, not from ordering them myself, LOL!).

alexandra, in case I didn't come across as such, I am not putting you down for your feelings or beliefs on this topic; I'm just sharing my views, and not saying you're wrong or anything.

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alexandra_k said:
i miss it :-(

a love affair... thats what i need...

;-)

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I understand what YOU are talking about here, for I too am needing that and I am married (21 yrs on Friday) - now if I can only get my husband to want an affair too - lol.

I just miss the way he couldn't keep his hands off me or always had to see me every day or be on the phone with me - talking until the wee hours of the morning..... I sure do miss that old feeling that always said "YOU ARE THE WORLD TO ME" loud and clear and with every little word and action.
Mmmmmmmmm

Now, don't get me wrong he still says all that - just in a different 42 year old man way..... not as fun.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

I don't feel you can have loving sex with a stranger. You can have gentle, friendly, caring sex, but it's not love. You can't love a person from the moment you meet them. You can respect them, care (in the sense you don't want to harm them or see them harmed), be nice to them, be kind to them, but love is an emotion that takes getting to know a person.

> I don't feel you can have loving sex with a stranger.

I guess it depends on how you define the word 'love'.

> You can have gentle, friendly, caring sex, but it's not love.

Sounds like loving sex to me. I'd settle for that. Don't care what you call it particularly.


Sorry peoples.

I agree with you, Alexandra. I believe that it's possible for some people to have loving sex with a stranger or an acquaintance they're not in a serious relationship with. It's something many of my friends do and they enjoy it and find it fulfilling.

I had sex with a friend once. I knew him very well and we had been close friends for a long time. I ended up regretting it, though, partly because he was in love with me and I didn't feel the same way about him. I also found that I didn't enjoy it as much as when I have had sex with someone I'm in love with. That's just me, though. That's the way I am. It's a very personal thing... we all experience sex in different ways and I think it fulfills different needs for different people. I need to be able to really relax and let myself go in order to really enjoy sex, and I'm not capable of being that open and relaxed with someone I'm not in love with, so casual sex has never been appealing to me.

"To each his own" is my philosophy. I'm all for people doing what they're comfortable with and works for them personally.

I have been browsing this thread but not posting in it, and I did see that conversation was flowing off direction, but I didn't say anything because conversations naturally ebb and flow, and I didn't see consternation as to the thread evolving naturally, or I would have steered it back on course if I had sensed that it was going too far off topic. For that I apologize. It is looking as though it is back on track here. We can always put a gentle reminder in threads that we start if we want it to get back on track.

I also wanted to mention that I always keep in mind our younger viewers in this forum, and while the conversation has been a bit descriptive, I didn't feel it was too descriptive for younger viewrs. We don't have "kids" here. We have teens and young adults.

I just wanted to post and make sure ya'll know that I am watching this forum, even if I don't post on it much. Thanks Alexandera_K for nudging your thread back in the right direction; always feel free to do so when you start a thread, or let me know. =)

(This was just a quick reply Julianna, hope you don't think I'm aiming my post at you. )

Thanks,
Rayna