[Anonymous37919]

I have, but my experiences with them have been a mixed bag. I lost my virginity to one in a sauna years ago.

There are some ladies that I have been with who have been wholly disinterested and been nasty. I've wasted a lot of money, regrettably. I think it would be a bad idea too to 'fall in love' with a prostitute too, because they are not people you could maybe trust.

[MotownJohnny]

Yeah, real world relationships with a sex worker - it's probably not like Vivian and Edward in 'Pretty Woman' with the fairy-tale ending. I know there are some "high class" high priced escort services with very well educated women, but I think it's safe to assume (OK, never safe to assume, but ...) that many/most women engaged in prostitution have a lot of problems, psychological, substance abuse, etc. It's NOT a professional of choice for most, from what I understand, but of desperation and convenience. So not a lot of stability there to start with I suspect.

No, I have not ever done that. Would I??? Well, only if I knew it were completely "safe" legally, and that isn't gonna happen in my jurisdiction. I might partake if I traveled somewhere it were legal.

[Webgoji]

Naw. Never really wanted to either. I've always wanted to feel like my partner desired and wanted me, not that I paid her to put up with me.

[Anonymous37919]

It is not illegal to use escorts, hookers, call-girls or whatever the heck they get called. I have saw countless women over the years and only 5 or so of the exchanges were "orgasmic" for me. The rest totally sucked and I wish I had kept my dough after walking out of her place feeling like a moron.

Yes, a lot of punting is a gamble, but it wound up being annoying after the tenth or so time. But losing your cash is not just a problem, because the sex itself can present trouble. Sexually transmitted infections are a problem due to these classless bimbos purposefully doing bareback (usually that's a term for unprotected sex between gay men, but it can refer to any unprotected sex act). The women on the Adult Work website are notorious for offering this. Are they not worried about catching HIV?

The way I see it is, it is paid sex or nothing. I tell people all the time that 'I wish I had a real girlfriend'. But until you can get one, you feel stuck in a rut. I reckon the sex would be far more enjoyable (and meaningful) if it was more to do with loving someone. However, I have never had that.

My mate never pays for sex, but I do not know how he can withstand it. Maybe he secretly plays with himself. I think he last got laid in 2013. And I met his bird.