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Is it just a dream? Is it possible?
I have since i remember been a slave of sexual fantasies, yes i admit it i have some serious sexual issues it all started with with having sex at a very early age well i was just 9 playing games .....the only problem is that i kept playing the game my sex orientation i think i am straight still i got my doubts due to my history my past and my addictions . Dont know what to say other than one step at a time, its olny been a few day since the last time i watched porn and masturbated for hours so all i can say is that if i can just stop watching porn and stop masturbation and can address the real problems im dealing with...its really hard but i feel positive and this site and the people really give good advice, i guess hearing similar stories and knowing that other people are dealing with some kind of issues like mine really help me deal with my own its the very first time i open up to people about this issues i have and believe me. Even though i dont know the real people only their username it really feels good to know that people care and try to help thank you..yes you who are reading this. It really means a lot to me to know there is people out there who listens and try to helps ,,hope you also get and find what you are looking for..for now all i want is a life without porn a dream that one day become a reality....i do beleive dreams come true!!!

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It is possible. I know people can overcome this. I've seen it people and I've overcome it myself. Check out Sex Addicts Anonymous. They've helped a lot of people.

its possible. you will get there.

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I have the same problem with escaping into sexual fantasies of porn and so forth. I'm middle-aged male and most of my life, I just accept the problem. It's hard to explain, because it's not about sex drive in my case - it's about escaping depression?

I was able to abstain from porn and masturbation for a couple of years. I also have an addiction to alcohol, and the problems seem similar. I don't crave alcohol, but I know that having a drink would probably lead me back into years of alcohol abuse. So I don't drink.

If you can abstain for a couple of months, you might find that you no longer desire porn. Probably it is just a bad habit that you use to escape, and abstaining will force you to replace it with something else. Once it is replaced, you will no longer crave it.

You might try fasting. This creates a very serious, self-controlled, ascetic mood.