Once and for all Does siZe matter?

OK, here's an unscientific query into the question that gets continually questioned...but "Does Size Matter!?" Be Honest! ;-)
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Haha...Umm, not to skew the survey results, but I'm guessing she's voting..."Yes It Matters!" :-)

Maybe it's because I'm hypersexual and just like sex so truly doesn't matter. What matters is if the guy knows what he's doing AND if he doesn't if he's open to instruction.

I'm guessing we're talking size of penis in regards to vaginal penetrative sex? Technically it shouldn't matter because science says all or almost of of the pleasure points (nerve endings) are at or near the entrance. Of course sex isn't all science. The brain is an importantant sexual organ I had a female friend, strictly a friend so she had no dog in the fight, who said that size did not matter. On the other hand a couple of times at clubs I've had women who seemed to be doing hands on comparison shopping so I'd guess size mattered to them. Anyway I guess my opinion is that size matters to a degree... to some
I wonder why the question of size in women never comes up

I am a woman and yes size matters. To me bigger is better. Plus, deepthroating is more fun when it's a challenge.

It depends.

I prefer a guy with an average size penis and good technique and high libido/stamina over a man with a large penis that has none of those attributes. I have been with men who were simply too small but they were quite a bit smaller than average.

The size of my junk has never been a concern of mine. People need to worry less about things like that.

Being a guy I fall into the "Yeah, kinda-sorta I-dunno" category. I've always lived under the idea that direct clitoral stimulation and G-spot stimulation are the way to go (the G spot being where the clitoris dips close to the vaginal wall). Ergo, size becomes almost irrelevant. A tireless tongue and being good at the "come here" motion with your finger has always been my icing on the cake.

ALTHOUGH! I sure would like to be "normal" size.

So yeah, it's not the end-all be-all for me, I've got waaay better tools in my toolbox ... but my hammer is kinda puny and I'd like a normal one ...

It does, but in secret. You never, ever want to say anything regarding that to a woman. Seriously.

It is starting to come up more and more. There is labiaplasty. There are a lot of women that think something is wrong with them because they have never seen how other real women look.

but its okay for them to talk about ours There is no denying that there is a universal ideal of what is considered sexy but I think a lot of us have our own turnons. For me its eyes. Maybe I watched too many 60s/70s Hammer horror films as a kid
I think a lot of people really don't know much about sexuality even though they appear to think a lot about sex and may even tend to be drawn to kink. It isn't a sport or a competition.
Sorry, I meant the size/elasticity of the vagina itself, due to childbirth mainly. I think. I could be wrong I know what you're talking about though. I watched a docu called The Perfect Vagina. Ouch! It really isn't nearly that important unless its causing some physical problem. Should all flowers look the same?
On the flip side I've also watched a docu on cultural differences and there was a part where they showed these men who had marbles or something implanted in their penis allegedly to give extra pleasue to their partners. Crazy huh?

Thanks for this and well said

...marbles, Prince Alberts.... to each their own, lol.

Cultural perceptions of beauty and sexuality are facinating.

Yeah, I think it's best to take the high road when people's feelings are concerned.

I answered yes, but I didn't feel all that great about it. Why? Because it's very un-nuanced. It matters, but it's not ALL that matters. Technique matters more. A small-sized guy who knows what he's doing is sexier than a guy with a large penis who has no idea, or is incredibly selfish in bed. But it does matter, it increases the pleasure for a lot of women if the man is slightly big (but not too big, for a lot of people that hurts). For me, for instance, I prefer penetration to other kinds of sex (even oral sex, which I honestly feel is a bit overrated... I think this is also because I hate giving BJs but I feel I have to if he goes down on me, so I would kind of prefer none of us did, lol, so I think too much about that if he does it - unless I have already done it, so sometimes I try to be proactive). I dated, even lived with a guy who had a really small penis. Really, it was so small that you didn't really notice he was in you. When he fingered me he reached further in... But he wasn't all that bad in bed anyways, because we had the intimacy of a relationship it was good. So it depends on the situation and person, but in generally size matters - amongst other things.

Lol! Wow! Love the answer and the visual you've provided ;-). I'm also thinking that "the guy in the pic" has absolutely no chance of dating a certain Literary Lark at his size! Well...like the ant & the rubber tree plant! He can dream...;-) Thanks again for your response!

I am a woman, and I have been with different sized men. What really keeps me going is a man's attitude in life. His passion (rowr!) and focus on bring me to high levels of satisfaction are all that I need, for sure!