[EASYNCOMPLICATED]

well here is my situation, I like dress up from time to time and I feel a litte
guilty afterwards and the reason is that I Dont like guys sometime I get too much in the role of the woman that I want to go one step further and fantasise about being with guys .....BUT soon as Im done with the action I feel so wrong so embarresed ....I Think I like crossdressing but I dont like guys its the opposite I like ladies they are so beautiful when I see guys ahhh uggly
so what I am? by the way Im a guy who feels a little femme from time to time but love ladies and dont feel sexually attracted to males except when im dress up

[kaliope]

youre a cross dresser. there may be a more complicated term for it but i cant think of it. there is nothing to feel guilty, embarrased, ashamed about for doing it. i am all for if something makes you happy and it is not harming anyone, go for it! the guilt comes from thinking about what others will think. well you have to not care what others will think. dont focus on that. focus instead on the joy you get out of being dressed as a woman. it is so difficult to find happiness in this world as far as i am concerned. if you can get a little bit of that out of wearing a dress, then wear a dress every day cause happiness is what is most important.

[seraphic]

" by the way Im a guy who feels a little femme from time to time but love ladies and dont feel sexually attracted to males except when im dress up"

I think you answered your own question about what you are. People's sexuality can change over time (or in different situations!), and your gender can be whatever you want it to be. I know it may seem shameful to crossdress, but I promise there's nothing wrong with it - like kaliope says, do what makes you happy! That's absolutely a good thing to do.

[LYDANOAVS]

I freely admit that sometimes, yes, it can become exciting to cross dresser (if you know what i mean), but for me, that's it.

[LYDANOAVS]

Just be yourself!

[LYDANOAVS]

i like play the pretty bodysuit and crossdress

[bixkf]

I feel that crossdressing and roleplaying gets you as close as anyone can get to becoming the other sex with having SRS. This can be beneficial as it can allow you to experience what you haven't before and to better understand the life of the opposite sex.

I think that many people forget that at one point in our development we were both "no gender" and "both genders". True, biology moves us down a specific path but I don't believe that we ever lose all of the opposite sex traits. Some may retain body shape, voice, body hair...whereas some will retain sexual attractions or body images associated with the opposite sex. As a bisexual male, I believe that my sexual attraction to men is a remenant of the female side of me that was present early in my development that never left. Perhaps you have a female body image left over which drives your cross dressing.

No matter the cause or reason, you shouldn't feel guilty at all for doing something that feels good and hurts no one.

[Mike_J]

You are who you are, you don't have to put a label on yourself. You shouldn't feel guilty about any fantasies that you have, or things you have done.

Guilt is the emotion I would worry about if you have any of that (you shouldn't feel guilty) it's just that personally a bit if embarrassment/humiliation is somewhat exciting but that is usually a feeling I have before doing anything not after.

But any way you look at it there is nothing wrong with you.