Has the porn industry changed?

bighands · Jul 15, 2015 at 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Big Mama

I am female and like to watch porn from time to time. I think the industry has changed some. The notion of female friendly porn was just not an option some years back. It was made for males to view. Not females are starting to join in the viewing. I think my view of porn is different then most. Due to sexual abuse and rape I had very VERY bad images of sex and little belief that sex could be a good thing, and almost no idea of what sensual loving sex should look like. Upon the advice of a T, she suggested several sites I look into to "see" what sex can look like. She also advise me on topics to avoid and things NOT to look into. That was some of the best advice I ever received.

Sex is not a bad thing, in fact it is a good thing, and it took soft porn to help me see that. Sorry if that all got a little off topic.

I am eternally grateful that women are becoming consumers of porn. I honestly despise the usual macho, tattooed, ugly, rude rough guy that throws a girl around, bangs her for 40 minutes non-stop like a jack-hammer and then finishes on her face without so much as a kiss; much less any kind of sensual foreplay for the lady. This kind of porn is why so many straight women enjoy lesbian porn.

The old stuff is unrealistic and confusing as hell for anyone who is not already sexually experienced. And for those of us who do have some experience, it's just ugly.

So, to answer the OP, yes, I think the industry is changing (actually booming) but i think it's growing in every direction; not just one. And I think that's a good thing because everyone can find what they want/need.

For me personally, I say hurrah for the ladies! If there is any porn that is "wholesome" and more guilt-free, what they are asking for is pretty close and it's what I like!

Big Mama · Jul 15, 2015 at 09:44 PM

Amen Bighands thank you. Porn is not just a thing for the consumption of men. Us women like a little spice in the bedroom to and some love and affection as well.

alexa00018 · Aug 22, 2015 at 04:44 AM

I'd like to think things are getting better. Honestly, there is some good porn out there - I mean more genuine / real porn where its not about women shouting loudly and you know the gross things that go with that.

Dont want to break any rules by referring to other sites but if you search for "agony" and "beautiful" together, well lets just say its nice to see women enjoying themselves

Sep 04, 2015 at 12:31 AM

Porn is definitely different. Before, merely showing an act of sex was what porn consisted of. Now, it has to be more extreme. There is more violence in the scenes, and it is more staged than in the past. Also, I have heard that the porn actors and actresses actually get drugged before the scenes sometimes. I'm not surprised, since most folks would likely get quite camera shy for that type of production.

Sep 04, 2015 at 10:47 AM

Porn, changes with time because it warps our perception, it takes more explicit scenes to get me off to it, I used to be able just to get off on small stuff now it takes much more to stimulate me. That is why I switched to reading erotica and I let my mind paint the picture, instead of looking at a vid or pic.

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Big Mama Magnate Member Since Jun 2012 Location: Virginia Posts: 2,191 11 646 hugs given	Jul 15, 2015 at 09:44 PM #22 Amen Bighands thank you. Porn is not just a thing for the consumption of men. Us women like a little spice in the bedroom to and some love and affection as well.
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anon2216 Guest Posts: n/a	Sep 04, 2015 at 10:47 AM #25 Porn, changes with time because it warps our perception, it takes more explicit scenes to get me off to it, I used to be able just to get off on small stuff now it takes much more to stimulate me. That is why I switched to reading erotica and I let my mind paint the picture, instead of looking at a vid or pic.
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