Teen who watches violent/deviant porn - Help me

lonely_teen_dude · Aug 25, 2015 at 03:45 PM

I am in my mid teens and am male.I live in the middle east so dating/having relationships is completely out of the question.I masturbate occasionally-frequently to Hentai (anime porn) in the loli and tentacle subgenres.Habits which are increasingly worrying me.Especially the fact that I occasionally watch Lolicon(underage) hentai it makes me feel very guilty.What should i do?

healingme4me · Aug 27, 2015 at 08:59 AM

In the States, it's frowned upon to have children under 18 viewing pornography. If concerned that it's wreaking havoc on you, perhaps take a break from watching, at least until you are older and your self identity is more defined?

Tauren · Aug 27, 2015 at 03:16 PM

Lots of guys your age are into hentai and tentacle porn - that's nothing to worry about. Lolicon can get you arrested in some places, though. I'm not sure what "underage" means in this context. Attraction to prepubescent children is a serious problem. If it just means after puberty but under the age of consent, that's still ILLEGAL in some places, but considering your own age, it wouldn't be abnormal for you to be interested in it. Just don't. Think of the consequences.

OliverRaw · Aug 28, 2015 at 05:54 AM

When I was a teen I also watched hentai. Not lolicon, but still, I kinda was disgusted by normal porn and almost never masturbated to it. But now, after having sex with a few girls I'm totally okay with human bodies.
You just need to find a girl and have normal relationship with sex. But don't be too tied to it. Then have another girl and another, and then You'll feel better in every way.

Sep 02, 2015 at 04:48 AM

I agree with Healing, you are young. I understand eastern culture and philosophy and I am sure that it is very difficult. You don't need a girl to be a "man" and porn isn't the answer. Living in the western world I have been deluged with the false notion that porn is okay and it has been backed up by a lot of people through out my life. Try not to feel ashamed about it, because, let me tell you at my peek it took more and more to get me going. I still struggle but I am finding that I don't need porn any more. Keep you head high young one and find something that interest you, to try to take your mind off of the porn, it may not help at first but in the long run it may. I wish I wouldn't have been led down the road, that has made me into an addict, so stop get off the roller coaster and try something else to distract yourself. Stay pure.

lonely_teen_dude · Sep 14, 2015 at 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by OliverRaw

When I was a teen I also watched hentai. Not lolicon, but still, I kinda was disgusted by normal porn and almost never masturbated to it. But now, after having sex with a few girls I'm totally okay with human bodies.
You just need to find a girl and have normal relationship with sex. But don't be too tied to it. Then have another girl and another, and then You'll feel better in every way.

first off,I live in a certain country in the Middle east where teens get whipped and jailed if they meet unrelated members of the opposite sex
So I handle my Libido myself but as I said above, some of my habits scare me and make me worry if i am developing some horrid fixation

lonely_teen_dude · Sep 14, 2015 at 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by healingme4me

In the States, it's frowned upon to have children under 18 viewing pornography. If concerned that it's wreaking havoc on you, perhaps take a break from watching, at least until you are older and your self identity is more defined?

Do you think that for a person in my situation,where even meeting members of the opposite sex is forbidden by law. It is possible to handle my Libido in any other way?

lonely_teen_dude · Sep 14, 2015 at 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Tauren

Lots of guys your age are into hentai and tentacle porn - that's nothing to worry about. Lolicon can get you arrested in some places, though. I'm not sure what "underage" means in this context. Attraction to prepubescent children is a serious problem. If it just means after puberty but under the age of consent, that's still ILLEGAL in some places, but considering your own age, it wouldn't be abnormal for you to be interested in it. Just don't. Think of the consequences.

I do not exactly get your Point.You are telling me its normal but you are telling me to think of the consequences?
Thats what you mean right?

lonely_teen_dude · Sep 14, 2015 at 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by OliverRaw

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You just need to find a girl and have normal relationship with sex. But don't be too tied to it. Then have another girl and another, and then You'll feel better in every way.

Scroll up and see what I mentioned about casual interaction between opposite sexes is strictly forbidden

lonely_teen_dude · Sep 14, 2015 at 04:05 PM

Everyone who has replied:
Thanks! I appreciate the effort but it is in no way helping me.Going to a therapist in my place and admitting these things is either a ticket to jail and/or social suicide
Everyone here is a ******* prude,they refuse to acknowledge that sex exists and even the mention of it is thought of as crass and indecent
So I see absolutely no way to help myself. Its like a road to nowhere and my habits make me feel so *******ed guilty but I have no place to vent but here

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