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May 26, 2007 at 10:00 AM
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ever had really bad sex, where you really felt awkward and embarassed and sort of weirded out?
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May 26, 2007 at 01:59 PM
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yes
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May 26, 2007 at 02:04 PM
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May 26, 2007 at 03:01 PM
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Yes.......
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May 26, 2007 at 03:42 PM
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Yep.....sounds like none of us are alone.
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May 26, 2007 at 07:25 PM
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May 26, 2007 at 08:04 PM
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Rainbowzz said: ever had really bad sex, where you really felt awkward and embarassed and sort of weirded out? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> YES! Actually, I termed it BORING sex. No idea of foreplay Straight into it Grunt grunt pant pant Roll off and and look satisfied while I am sitting there going WHERE'S MINE????? [O ....] Lesson learnt. Never date a Political Science PhD student who is 89843894938402394823 times better looking than he is good in bed. |
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May 26, 2007 at 10:01 PM
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Great big honkin' yes from this corner. :-\
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May 26, 2007 at 10:17 PM
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LOL..Candy...I second that!
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May 26, 2007 at 11:50 PM
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YES. Not only was it bad sex, but rated highest on the "disappointment" sex scale. (Yes, I made one up). The guy was really hot. The way that he presented himself..... I figured I better get geared up for something unbelievable!!! Then it happened.... and I was like... what the %#@&#! is this!?!?! You gotta be kiddin' me! lol
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May 26, 2007 at 11:57 PM
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hmm...
methinks thats when turning it into a bit of a game can help. a kind of a 'just lie there and let me have my wicked way with you and if you move you ain't gettin any!' kind of a game. that way you get as much foreplay as you want and the guy gets the hang of what kinds of things you like. sometimes... it is about ignorance. othertimes... its about their not being bothered. if what they want is conditional on what you want (and you show them what you want) then its much more fun :-) |
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May 27, 2007 at 12:28 AM
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well, i had a short fling with a Lt. Col..........we had sex once. i couldn't get all of that saluting and such figured out.........
truthfully, it was the most sterile experience of my life. and his house was the same way. and you should have seen how clean his garage was.......... 
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May 27, 2007 at 09:05 AM
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For me the best sex is with guys who can talk comfortably about sex before hand - and are comfy talking during sex. I don't mean "dirty talk" (that's a whole nuther thread!)...I mean that they bring their entire personality into the bedroom. Some guys just shut down emotionally during sex because they are so uncomfortable with intimacy. Heck - if we can't talk about sex...we aren't ready to have it....imo.
Some of the best sex I ever had included hysterical laughter! em |
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May 27, 2007 at 04:53 PM
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i agree with ems. this guy never said a word and i felt like it was a drill or something..........and laughing during sex is the most freeing gift you'll get doing it!!!!!!!!!!!
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May 27, 2007 at 05:15 PM
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yup, sure have....
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May 27, 2007 at 09:04 PM
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yes.
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May 28, 2007 at 01:28 AM
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Yup
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May 28, 2007 at 12:21 PM
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Mine was so bad I can't post about it, but the first time I was in bed with him he began talking about bondage. I replied that it was sick. I never engaged in any of that, but the guy was a real "perv!"
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May 28, 2007 at 03:35 PM
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I would have gotten up and ran like the wind lol
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May 28, 2007 at 10:06 PM
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I look back on that unfortunate experience with that creep as part of my learning and growing exp after my divorce. I was very naive but quickly realized he was just a sicko!
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