Oral Sex?

hheehee yup !!

my now exwife gave me a training regime whilst we were still together that involved a standard 100g pot of yogurt (sp), it involves, hands behind your back, face down, eat the contents using only your tongue, its harder than you think but i am sure you get the picture.......... i love oral sex, not only recieving but giving also, but....................

girls you could make it easier if you said left, right, up, down, deeper, softer, harder, faster, slower ect

Oh my gosh - toooo funny! What a smart woman!

OMG, Mellors, that's great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! by gosh, i'll give directions the next time!!!! pat

I always thought if I told a guy what/how to do it it would hurt his feelings. and I am shy when it comes to that. guess that is why at times I might feel....empty?

communicate, communicate, communicate......your words!!

i dont like giving oral that well ..... i have to be in a certain mood to want to....... tbut love receiving,.. ...

pat lol you are right! lol

In response to Tranquility's questions, I'm actually not sure what I would do.

I think that sex is a very important part of a relationship and that feeling sexually unsatisfied would have quite an impact. I guess the best way to overcome any sexual frustrations is to actually talk to her/him about it. My mate always tells me his frustrations with his girlfriend: how she she hates giving oral sex and how disinterested she is with sex in general. But, he won't talk to her about it. At all.

To me, it's confusing. If you're in a relationship, and you want it to go further, you have to talk about the stuff that pisses you off. At least if they talk about it, the problem could be solved or they could at least come to some understanding. They could decide to role-play, or watch sexy movies together, or try new lingerie, or anything. They have a sex convention here in Sydney one week a year, I'm not sure when (they advertise it on TV when it's coming up), but I reckon that would be such a good thing for them to go to. The problem is, he won't talk to her about it and then he comes to me and asks for advice.

I think if you're in a relationship and you're too afraid/unsure/nervous/disinterested to talk to your partner about your sex life, then you're in for some serious trouble in the long-term. They should be the first person you talk to about being sexually unsatisfied because they need to know or you'll continue being unsatisfied.

In my personal experience, I've always felt able to talk about sex. My last girlfriend and I would try many different things (including a memorable night on Shelley Beach in Manly), lingerie, etc., and we were both sexually satisfied. The relationship didn't end up working but it wasn't for lack of communication.

There are always other things you can do if you or your partner doesn't enjoy oral sex. A little bit of time spent in an adult shop and you might change your sex life forever.

But you'll never know if you don't talk about it.

This is how I felt when I saw some things in the "Tool Shed" sex shop in Paddington (I think, it's on Oxford Street anyway).

And then,

But, finally,

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I agree............... this is the #1 Problem when it comes to GOOD SEX vs. BAD SEX - Lack of Communication.

Oh my, THEQUIRKSTER, how I wish you were in Southern CA!

hey i asked first rofl lmao quirkster get over to the uk quick sharp and put your money where your mouth is.....erm.....well maybe not hee hee

Knowledge is Power
&
The More You Know The Further You'll Go

not to change topics but it is related to this topic -- what is the preference when havin oral sex ???

should ur partner be shaved or not shaved or does it even matter

Shaved as much as possible is my preference

my boss got a card from another work collegue both male.. he said "thanks for sharing ur tips of enhancing size with shaving"

lol they were both real fun to work with...

i dont mind given that the male appendage isnt covered completely in hair....

although generally not fond of alot of body hair...

I don't like shaved.....looks too young and that kinda grosses me out lol. Trimmed is good, but I don't like bald.

I don't like to receive oral sex. I don't find it pleasurable at all, and I just feel kind of gross if a guy is doing that to me. On the other hand, I don't particularly mind doing it. And in one relationship I had, I loved doing it. Because I was really nuts about the guy involved and he really loved it. But for me, I never want it and could not orgasm like that. I'm a huge fan of plain old intercourse. That really does it for me. I think oral sex (when performed on me) seems too gentle or something. And I'm really not into gentle. Sorry if that's too much information!

My last boyfriend didn't like oral sex either so I actually haven't had it in ages. I'd be willing to do it again though.

Sidony

Funny - we just had this conversation at work. A girl I work with said she gets waxed - I was like oh my! Then she said yup I spread my legs and then I flip over for the other side.

I just about peed my pants laughing.

Tranquility

hmmm i have been looking for a second career......maybe.......

candle making perhaps joe? well there has got to be some way to recycle the used wax