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Jun 06, 2007 at 10:47 PM
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Okay - I got on this discussion at work and am curious what people think.
A girl I work with LOVES to provide oral sex to men. I am bi-sexual and I say EWWWW....to both sexes. With men it triggers me and I just tend to think it's yucky in general! Now, the girl said "do you like to have it done to you?". Well of course! But if the person isn't comfortable with it then I'm okay. So - what do you think? Tranquility __________________ 
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Jun 07, 2007 at 04:08 AM
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i really enjoy giving oral but hate hate hate to receive it
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Poohbah
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Jun 07, 2007 at 04:40 AM
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for me its really weird....
i love to give oral sex, lol but i like to make sure its clean lol.(its sad to say, but sometimes i get off on just that, i know i know, im a light weight lol) ..but at times for some odd reason i get triggered really horribly.....hmmm as for recieving it.....doesnt do too much for me truthfully but heres the bad part about giving oral that i never thought of ...or well didnt put two and two together...and im wondering if others have had the same if you give oral.....and later on in during intercourse...after more..um things.....if you give oral again...make sure it is clean clean clean...because i got DEATHLY ILL ( i am sure it was that) and i was flat on my back in bed after almost collasping in a store for around 3 days....i am positive, my intution, was we got kinda rowdy....and just were so in the moment that we didnt think, and well you say eww gross, but believe me it happens...it took some time to get all the "toxins" out of my body, but it was horrible...now im extra extra careful...lol __________________ "You look at me, and you dont like what you see. But this is the price of living with you, Mother. " - White Oleander |
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Jun 07, 2007 at 07:45 AM
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I enjoy both giving and recieving....
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Jun 07, 2007 at 12:42 PM
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I've never liked giving. It makes my jaw hurt and I gag. Sure I like receiving but its not a necessity. My dream came true with my bf, he doesn't like it too much. He says its just not intimate. Works for me! So we don't do it and I'm off the hook lol.
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Jun 07, 2007 at 12:46 PM
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I've never liked giving it....and I agree with your boyfriend, it doesn't feel intimate to me either.....
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Jun 08, 2007 at 07:22 AM
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My answer is sort of a bit difficult and probably a bit more deep to explain so I will try best I can to keep it as simple as possible....
I don't normally like to give oral to my husband. But since I have 'come out' about my alternativeness (and is now my lifestyle) I find that if I am in a 'play' session and being the part of a total submissive then I find oral far more likable and enjoyable both to male or female. To be submissive and give my 'power' over to the one I trust deeply with it means I have no guilt or shame and to please my play partner is greatly rewarding. __________________ After the light of day, darkness comes and kneels to obey!! |
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Grand Poohbah
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Jun 10, 2007 at 01:45 PM
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i don`t like it a all.
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Jun 10, 2007 at 06:22 PM
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so far being the only guy to answer, ill say that i like to do it with a woman, and take my time, I enjoy my work. As for myself, it would be unlikely for me to turn it down.
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Jun 10, 2007 at 07:18 PM
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Jun 10, 2007 at 10:50 PM
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joe u truely are a dream!!
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Jun 10, 2007 at 11:05 PM
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heyjoe said: so far being the only guy to answer, ill say that i like to do it with a woman, and take my time, I enjoy my work. As for myself, it would be unlikely for me to turn it down. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Said like the true gentleman that you are Joe Mc Dreamy!!! GOOD FOR YOU!!!
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Jun 11, 2007 at 01:22 AM
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In this case I'd have to say it truly is better to give than to receive. Heyyyyyy!!!!!! I just realized something ..there was a question about what are you good at in the "question of the month"- and I couldnt think of anything. i racked my brain for several days...this is my gift.....I'm good at oral sex. HAH!
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Jun 12, 2007 at 11:04 AM
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Well,
Since Joe has to be the pioneer and break the ice for the mean Proud of ya Bro I like doing to a woman and like having it done to me ... the longer the better ... slower the better kinda of a teasing thing ..... Well that is as personal you will get from me --- woo hoo :::: blushing :::: Tymber |
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Jun 12, 2007 at 01:44 PM
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I like giving it and getting it.
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Jun 13, 2007 at 12:35 AM
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I am great with giving and recieving it.
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Jun 13, 2007 at 07:06 AM
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quirkster get yourself over to the uk rofl lmao.
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Poohbah
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Jun 13, 2007 at 10:31 PM
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i dont like giving oral that well ..... i have to be in a certain mood to want to....... tbut love receiving,.. ...
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Jun 14, 2007 at 11:23 AM
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pat lol you are right! lol
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Jun 16, 2007 at 11:12 AM
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not to change topics but it is related to this topic -- what is the preference when havin oral sex ???
should ur partner be shaved or not shaved or does it even matter Shaved as much as possible is my preference |
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