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Jun 06, 2007 at 10:47 PM
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Okay - I got on this discussion at work and am curious what people think.
A girl I work with LOVES to provide oral sex to men. I am bi-sexual and I say EWWWW....to both sexes. With men it triggers me and I just tend to think it's yucky in general! Now, the girl said "do you like to have it done to you?". Well of course! But if the person isn't comfortable with it then I'm okay. So - what do you think? Tranquility __________________ 
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Jun 07, 2007 at 04:08 AM
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i really enjoy giving oral but hate hate hate to receive it
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Poohbah
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Jun 07, 2007 at 04:40 AM
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for me its really weird....
i love to give oral sex, lol but i like to make sure its clean lol.(its sad to say, but sometimes i get off on just that, i know i know, im a light weight lol) ..but at times for some odd reason i get triggered really horribly.....hmmm as for recieving it.....doesnt do too much for me truthfully but heres the bad part about giving oral that i never thought of ...or well didnt put two and two together...and im wondering if others have had the same if you give oral.....and later on in during intercourse...after more..um things.....if you give oral again...make sure it is clean clean clean...because i got DEATHLY ILL ( i am sure it was that) and i was flat on my back in bed after almost collasping in a store for around 3 days....i am positive, my intution, was we got kinda rowdy....and just were so in the moment that we didnt think, and well you say eww gross, but believe me it happens...it took some time to get all the "toxins" out of my body, but it was horrible...now im extra extra careful...lol __________________ "You look at me, and you dont like what you see. But this is the price of living with you, Mother. " - White Oleander |
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Jun 07, 2007 at 07:45 AM
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I enjoy both giving and recieving....
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Jun 07, 2007 at 12:42 PM
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I've never liked giving. It makes my jaw hurt and I gag. Sure I like receiving but its not a necessity. My dream came true with my bf, he doesn't like it too much. He says its just not intimate. Works for me! So we don't do it and I'm off the hook lol.
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Jun 07, 2007 at 12:46 PM
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I've never liked giving it....and I agree with your boyfriend, it doesn't feel intimate to me either.....
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Jun 07, 2007 at 12:49 PM
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Yeah....I never really thought of it that way until he said it. I'd always had such issues with sex, that I'd do it because that was what the guy wanted, but I never liked doing it, so my bf is certainly a blessing lol.
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Jun 08, 2007 at 07:22 AM
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My answer is sort of a bit difficult and probably a bit more deep to explain so I will try best I can to keep it as simple as possible....
I don't normally like to give oral to my husband. But since I have 'come out' about my alternativeness (and is now my lifestyle) I find that if I am in a 'play' session and being the part of a total submissive then I find oral far more likable and enjoyable both to male or female. To be submissive and give my 'power' over to the one I trust deeply with it means I have no guilt or shame and to please my play partner is greatly rewarding. __________________ After the light of day, darkness comes and kneels to obey!! |
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Jun 10, 2007 at 01:45 PM
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i don`t like it a all.
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Jun 10, 2007 at 06:22 PM
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so far being the only guy to answer, ill say that i like to do it with a woman, and take my time, I enjoy my work. As for myself, it would be unlikely for me to turn it down.
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Jun 10, 2007 at 07:18 PM
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Jun 10, 2007 at 10:50 PM
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joe u truely are a dream!!
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Jun 10, 2007 at 11:05 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
heyjoe said: so far being the only guy to answer, ill say that i like to do it with a woman, and take my time, I enjoy my work. As for myself, it would be unlikely for me to turn it down. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Said like the true gentleman that you are Joe Mc Dreamy!!! GOOD FOR YOU!!!
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Jun 11, 2007 at 01:22 AM
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In this case I'd have to say it truly is better to give than to receive. Heyyyyyy!!!!!! I just realized something ..there was a question about what are you good at in the "question of the month"- and I couldnt think of anything. i racked my brain for several days...this is my gift.....I'm good at oral sex. HAH!
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Jun 11, 2007 at 01:30 AM
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I think oral sex can be more intimate than regular intercourse. It's a situation where someone could hurt you very badly physically, and generally I would think you'd have to have trust with someone to do it.
That being said, I've only been with one person, and the thought that I did it sorta grosses me out sometimes, but I think that's because he turned out to be someone I should haven't trusted when I did. I think that feeling I have is because of him, not because of the act in general. I enjoy receiving probably more than actual intercourse itself too lol |
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Jun 11, 2007 at 02:03 PM
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I've never given or recieved and I'm not sure I really want to...perhaps I'm just naive but to me it seems utterly.."gross" for lack of a better word..lol
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Jun 11, 2007 at 02:13 PM
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lil_bit said: I've never given or recieved and I'm not sure I really want to...perhaps I'm just naive but to me it seems utterly.."gross" for lack of a better word..lol </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> yeah. for me too... sort of crazy. i did it once in my life...no maybe few times but with 1 person. i was more convinced to try and didn`t really wanted to do it and i hated myself for that. becasue all that tured out to me after that "sex" that on the whole was not only oral of course, but sort of abuse i hate the memory. it makes me feel ashamed. because being sort of forced to do it..just because you are either curious and too much of a nice person and too much SHOCKED to say "NO"... is no fun! 
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Jun 11, 2007 at 03:49 PM
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OT ((sorry))) Hey what happened to the shepherds????
 
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Jun 11, 2007 at 04:22 PM
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I LOVE TO GIVE ORAL SEX AND I LOVE TO RECEIVE IT. IT'S PART OF LOVEMAKING FOR ME AND I LOVE BOTH, SPECIALLY AT THE SAME TIME LMAO (sorry embarrassed)
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Jun 11, 2007 at 06:49 PM
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I am bisexual, and enjoy doing it to women, and to men, to some degree. I can't do it for a long time, and some times it just triggers the bejesus out of me.
As for having it done to me, doesn't float my boat at all really.. its almost more unnerving and I mostly will tolerate it for the sake of my partner. |
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