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Crowned "The Good Witch"
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Nov 25, 2015 at 01:15 AM
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I'm not skinny...or flexible...and yet some of the guys I've been with like to put me in really uncomfortable positions, particularly throwing my legs over their shoulders and spreading myself as wide as possible at the same time. It hurts like a mf'er. I don't do doggy style because the last and only time I've done doggy style he puts his d*ck in the wrong hole!
What other positions can I do for intercourse that isn't so painful? |
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Wise Elder
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Nov 25, 2015 at 03:50 AM
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Grand Magnate
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Nov 25, 2015 at 08:14 AM
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Spooning works really well. Cowgirl as well (plus you can control your stimulation better with cowgirl).
Doggy with a pillow underneath you for support should be really good, but if he can't get it in the right place I can understand your concern. That really hurts if you aren't ready. __________________ Helping to create a kinder, gentler world by flinging poo. |
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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Nov 26, 2015 at 04:05 PM
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Work on stretching your hamstrings and strengthening your quads.
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Grand Poohbah
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Nov 27, 2015 at 05:15 PM
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Personally, I think it's a bit concerning that the guys you're having sex with dont seem to be ensuring you are comfortable and having a good time. There will always be positions that are great for some and painful or uncomfortable for others. Hopefully if you can find a patient, considerate partner, you can discover the positions that work for you and feel comfortable and fun for both of you.
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Nov 27, 2015 at 06:08 PM
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Maybe you just need to take him in a variety of ways. If you are playful enough and focus on foreplay he will want you bad enough that the position won't matter. Sometimes I engage my husband in two or three positions before finishing up the way I prefer (flat on my back with him on top of me) there is nothing that says you have to stay in one position for the whole time
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Grand Magnate
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Nov 27, 2015 at 07:12 PM
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I like to get furniture involved & different rooms. Adds to the adventure!
Agree on reverse cowgirl too. Great position for both __________________ "Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain." Jodi Picoult |
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