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Nov 30, 2015 at 04:47 AM
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I don't know if anyone on here will understand, but I have been away from my ex for three years but I can't seem to move on. I just think that he is the only person who can save me from myself and thats the truth. I think only he can truely understand me.
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Legendary
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Nov 30, 2015 at 01:18 PM
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You will continue to miss this person for as long as you are waiting for someone to save you.
Its nobody's job to save you, except for yours. My bf and I broke up after he not only "failed" to save me, but ended up needing saving himself. Lucky for us I figured I needed to save myself, and once I learned to swim and was floating along just fine, our relationship resumed. I hope you rethink your need for a knight in shining armor, that's generally not a role people opt to play in equal partnerships. With that being said, I am really sorry you're still pining after someone 3 years later. That has got to be rough. 
__________________  DXD BP1, BPD & OCPD  "The best way to make it through with hearts and wrists in tact, is to realise, two out of three aint bad" FOB...
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Dec 01, 2015 at 10:02 AM
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Totally agree w/Trippin, but I can understand looking for that White Knight.....I'm still searching.....know it won't happen tho.
Moving on can be hell & I sympathize w/ your pain! __________________ "Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain." Jodi Picoult |
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