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Hi im only 15 and experiencing these really scarey problems and of course i dont want to go to the doctor for obvious reasons so i really need your help can you tell me why this is happening im trying not to masturbate maybe that will work but its really scaring me i am still a virgin so its not performance anxiety or anything i thinks its very strange to have these problems at my age i think i have anxiety maybe thats the cause? Thanks for your replys.
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I'm not sure I understand your question.
You stated that you masturbate. Are you having trouble masturbating? Are you feeding into the notion that all teen agers are sex crazed & should be horny all the time? Why do you think you have a low libido in the first place? Is there something I missed? Sorry, but can you explain it a bit more so you can get more answers you're looking for. __________________ "Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain." Jodi Picoult |
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Hello Ineedhelp54: Welcome to PsychCentral! PC is a great place to gain support as well as to obtain mental health related information. There are many knowledgeable & caring members here. The more you post, & reply to other member's posts, the more you'll gain from the time you spend here.
You know, there's nothing wrong with masturbation. During your teenage years, especially, there's allot going on inside your body in terms of hormone activity. So, at least from my perspective, I believe that masturbation is quite normal. You mentioned that you think you have anxiety. Anxiety can certainly be a contributing factor. It's a positive thing to reduce one's level of anxiety, in general. And, if you can reduce your level of general anxiety, then you may find that you feel less of a need to masturbate. But, again, there's certainly nothing wrong, in & of itself, with masturbating. So, if the fact that you masturbate is your concern, I would like to put your mind at rest. It's no big deal. Rather... focus on the anxiety you feel you have, what is causing it & how you can reduce it. I wish you well... __________________ "I may be older but I am not wise / I'm still a child's grown-up disguise / and I never can tell you what you want to know / You will find out as you go." (from: "A Nightengale's Lullaby" - Julie Last) |
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