[amandastar92]

To start off with, I am 23 year old single female. Ever since I was in middle school, I've had fantasies of having sexual relations with adult men. It turned from fantasizing about teachers, to professors when I entered college, to supervisors when I entered the work force. It really bothers me because it clouds my ability to focus on my tasks. For example, if they're talking to me, I can't listen well because I am too busy thinking about them in a sexual manner. Why do you think I have this, is this normal? What do I do to stop it?

[Webgoji]

Yeah, it sounds normal. Nothing sexier than strength and authority. You might even have a little submissive tendency. I don't know that you want to stop as much as work on not letting it interfere, work on focusing on what you need to at the time.

[BlueCrustacean]

I know I loved going to see the chiropractor I had for a few weeks following a car crash, and fantasized about getting it on with him in the room while I was listening to him talk and watching his eyes. It was nice for the time being. Sometimes I wonder if he ever had similar thoughts/caught a vibe off of me.

[delicate grass]

Originally Posted by amandastar92

To start off with, I am 23 year old single female. Ever since I was in middle school, I've had fantasies of having sexual relations with adult men. It turned from fantasizing about teachers, to professors when I entered college, to supervisors when I entered the work force. It really bothers me because it clouds my ability to focus on my tasks. For example, if they're talking to me, I can't listen well because I am too busy thinking about them in a sexual manner. Why do you think I have this, is this normal? What do I do to stop it?

I do not think is weird, I had something similar. All the way in middle school and high school and in university. But turn out that I was just into people that were generally more intelligent than the average person my age. Maybe to channel it out, you can try to date people who can adopt that role without actually being involved in your work.