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Dec 31, 2015 at 12:14 PM
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So, I notice girls all the time. (I'm a female) Like, curves jump out at me
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Dec 31, 2015 at 04:09 PM
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It means you notice girls all the time. Especially curves and pretty faces. It feels weird to imagine kissing and stuff and don't feel anything towards guys.
I think it's less important to assign meaning or labels to any of it and more important to work through who you really are. If you find someone attractive and interesting, regardless of gender, you should consider dating them. Have fun together and whatever comes of it, kissing or whatever, then that's where it goes. __________________ Helping to create a kinder, gentler world by flinging poo. |
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Dec 31, 2015 at 05:54 PM
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Look up the sexual identity of asexuality. I'm an asexual and I feel no sexual attraction towards anyone, however I find many men (I'm hetero) to be aesthetically attractive. I enjoy things like holding hands, hugging, and light kissing (not making out). I do not enjoy sex or a whole lot of physical touch otherwise.
Asexuality is a spectrum and people vary from being repulsed by sex to actually not minding it. They vary from hating touch to enjoying cuddling... There are all different types of attraction too, not just sexual attraction. There is aesthetic, sensual, and romantic attraction. Time to do some reading  . Here's a good place to start: The Asexual Visibility and Education Network | asexuality.org
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Jan 01, 2016 at 11:09 PM
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How old are you?
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Jan 02, 2016 at 02:29 AM
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I feel the same haha. Girls are the ones who catch my eye but don't have any really sexual wants. And while I don't really get kissing, I do love cuddling. I consider myself a lesbian but also asexual (though I'm sure some people would get grumpy due to the opposite nature of those terms via strict definition). I've got a girlfriend who is also pretty asexual so we just cuddle happily and that is that lol.
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Jan 02, 2016 at 03:37 AM
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Jan 04, 2016 at 01:47 PM
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