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Default Sep 26, 2016 at 05:55 PM
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Is there a point to this thread?
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Default Oct 14, 2016 at 07:04 AM
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I have been masturbating since I was about 7 years old and I didn't know what it was at the time. As a result I tend to do it fully clothed. I don't touch my body, just my clothes. It tends to work if I have a sexy thought. But sometimes I have to concentrate on that thought. I do take medication which probably makes it more difficult to orgasm.

It seems that because I have always masturbated successfully and the pressure of being aroused fully when with another person has led to me never getting that aroused when with a partner. I always find masturbation has no expectations as you are on your own and penetration is not going to happen. I have vaginismus so penetrative sex can be a turn off for me. Therefore relationships really are not for me. I may be attracted to people but I know I'm not going to enjoy intercourse, only masturbation, so I stay away now.
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Default Oct 15, 2016 at 11:50 AM
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Usually just by hand, sometimes with a lotion. It can be looking at porn, sex chatting, or just imaging fantasies.

I like the arousal to last so I go to the edge and then stop for a minute or two.

Sometimes I put a condom on so I don't get sore. The condom can add another level of sensation as well.

How often? several times a week, at least.
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Default Oct 17, 2016 at 09:13 PM
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Mine is in the shower with the hand held shower head pulsing between my legs

Also, how often do you masturbate? I'd say 5x/wk on average for me
I masturbate around four or five times a day. ,I'm hypersexual so I need a lot of sexual stimulation. I'm
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Default Oct 17, 2016 at 10:19 PM
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I am a woman, and my way might be a little unusual. I like to do it when my stomach is facing down, with my hand supporting my breast, and I rub with my hand in a rough way and rub against the bed. I haven't heard of many who masturbate face down. It's very hard for me to reach orgasm from just using fingers front side up or even toys. I need more pressure to orgasm, and I get that from intercourse more so than any other sex act. For instance, it take a lot for me to orgasm with oral sex by itself, and maybe that has to do with my masturbation style.

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Default Oct 19, 2016 at 10:02 AM
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I am a woman, and my way might be a little unusual. I like to do it when my stomach is facing down, with my hand supporting my breast, and I rub with my hand in a rough way and rub against the bed. I haven't heard of many who masturbate face down. It's very hard for me to reach orgasm from just using fingers front side up or even toys. I need more pressure to orgasm, and I get that from intercourse more so than any other sex act. For instance, it take a lot for me to orgasm with oral sex by itself, and maybe that has to do with my masturbation style.
Have you ever seen the move Black Swan? Natalie Portman did almost exactly what you are describing and I'll admit that it was a very hot scene.
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Default Oct 20, 2016 at 07:09 AM
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Have you ever seen the move Black Swan? Natalie Portman did almost exactly what you are describing and I'll admit that it was a very hot scene.
True! Super hot scene.
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Default Dec 18, 2016 at 04:48 PM
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I use toys. I can only really orgasim using the blended technique so I usually use like a rabbit or toys that simulate it.
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Default Dec 18, 2016 at 04:58 PM
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just normal way ... but I find as I age and take these meds that once a month seems to be plenty for me ... get an urge but can only reach partial size ... need a short bit of porn to finish ... not very satisfying but does seem to relieve whatever I am feeling ... I forsee in near future no longer having any urges ...

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Default Dec 30, 2016 at 01:39 PM
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There is none.

I've been doing this NoFap for a year, I won't share any details regarding the rules that I follow. Opinions may vary, but the result of this personal experiment tells me that there seems to be no bad health side-effects that one may concern themselves with, and at times, it wasn't easy to keep myself from climaxing because of this heightened mood state that I often get. NoFap's rule is simple, no PMO, no porn, masturbation and orgasm are allowed. Anything out side of that is the rule that people can set for themselves, for me the primary reason for doing this is an ethical one, or I could say it's a simple life style choice that I made. I'm proud to be a fapstronaut today heading for another year of life explorations.
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Default Jan 23, 2017 at 06:03 AM
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I watched a movie on Netflix called Love by Gaspar Noe.
It's .. um.. well I found it enjoyable lol. It's one of the regular movies that used real sex scenes. Nice shots too lol.

Masturbation... well the showe head is nice. But it got so the shower head was the only thing that worked. So I stopped. Usually my hand... and can be maybe once a month to several times a day. Like black-roses, I like it outside to squirt but only at night because we have neighbors. I've been sleeping on the couch for five years and my husband hasn't touched me in that time. Which is fine because in 20years he never could get me off. I do miss the physical contact though. Just a f'n hug every now and then would be nice.
I can't make myself cum with penetration. Few men in my life could. But I've been masturbating my clit since probably 3years old. I remember my mom coming in and pulling up my underwear after I had fallen asleep. She never said anything about it and I learned to pull them up myself so she wouldn't know.
When I was pregnant I literally had sex or masturbated with anything I could get my hands on. All. Dam. Day. It was hormones I guess. It was fun though. That's how I found out clitoral orgasm can cause contractions so I got scared and stopped. He was born a month early anyway.

Basically, I rub one out, two if I'm lucky, maybe twice a day. Sometimes I get nothing and sometimes it only takes a few seconds.

And, I can't believe I just (or am about to) reveal all that.

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Default Apr 05, 2019 at 06:23 AM
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I have to wear panties and bras lingerie night gowns etc and masturbate with panties and watch porn
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Default Jun 18, 2019 at 03:18 PM
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My favorite way is woman on woman action. That sets me off in a hurry. 😍
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Default Jul 10, 2019 at 04:03 PM
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Has anyone used the suction from a vacuum to masterbate? I wonder what that would feel like?
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Default Jul 11, 2019 at 06:01 AM
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Has anyone used the suction from a vacuum to masterbate? I wonder what that would feel like?
Word on the street is, this is not a good idea.

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Default Aug 24, 2019 at 10:14 AM
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I’m not going to share this on a public forum, but I will say that I started masturbating when I was only 11 and the way I learned then is the way I still do it now. It’s funny how what gets imprinted on us when we’re young stays with us as we get older. I’ve tried other ways but nothing is as good as the original.
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Default Aug 24, 2019 at 10:15 AM
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LOL. I know your joking because this would do NOTHING to arouse a woman. There are many things that would buy this isn’t one of them.
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Default Feb 28, 2020 at 01:40 PM
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Has anyone used the suction from a vacuum to masterbate? I wonder what that would feel like?
I recall a course in psychology that had a section on autoerotic fatalities and the story wasn't pretty.
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Default Feb 29, 2020 at 11:00 AM
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Has anyone used the suction from a vacuum to masterbate? I wonder what that would feel like?
Yes. It was an amazing feeling, but you have to be cautious.

I ended up buying a clitoral and vaginal suction pump and it is one of my favorite ways to masterbate. I’m hoping to find someone that is open enough to use it on me.

I have always enjoyed touching myself while on my back with my legs spread very wide. Squeezing and tugging on the clitoral area and labia until I’m almost to orgasm and then adding deep hard strokes with my fingers or a toy.

I recently ran across some bondage porn where the entire focus is on the vagina, clit, and labia and it’s become a huge kink for me. They use all kinds of toys, including pumps.

I have no desire for any rough stuff anywhere else on my body or any **** play, so my hopes are not too high. Seems like they always go hand in hand.
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Default Jul 10, 2019 at 04:11 PM
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One of the few advantages to being an inorganic psychesexual is that I never have to masturbate. It's always making love. And I'm in love.

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