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Oct 03, 2016 at 09:18 PM
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I have had a great sex life with my wife we have been always having this fantasy of making a threesome mmf i like it when she dresses sexy flirts ect... the thing is that i guy at work tried to kiss her she stopped and she says that she wanted to do this just to have a story to tell me to get a good sex time with her. The thing is that i got so mad and jealous. And i tell her its always been just a fantasy not something that i want for real. I love her so much and cant accept something like that to happen. So do you think she really wanted that with the guy to have something to tell me or do you guys think she was gonna do it just for her?
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Oct 04, 2016 at 07:30 AM
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I would give her the benefit of doubt and try to forgive her. Unless you see more reasons to not trust her. It could be she just got wrapped up in the fantasy.
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Oct 04, 2016 at 08:33 AM
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I agree with gayleggg. Maybe she got wrapped up in the fantasy.
But I would talk about it more & clear the air about it but jealousy is nasty & can rear its head anytime. Also I highly advise doing some reading about some actual MMF interactions Bec most of the time they're nothing like they are on porn. And that's where the fantasy starts. Talk to her! Honestly & openly. __________________ "Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain." Jodi Picoult |
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Oct 04, 2016 at 04:35 PM
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I have to her openly and she still says it was just for fun with me. Should i believe her?
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Oct 06, 2016 at 10:10 AM
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So she says its just a fantasy??
Should you believe her? Wow, only you can answer that question if you believe her. Are there feelings if insecurities creeping in? But maybe IMHO you could ask more about other fantasies she has that both of you could explore? Sex can be such a difficult subject to discuss I think, but it depends on your relationship. If it's embarrassing maybe exchange letters or emails about things you're interested in exploring?? Just ideas here. It takes a great deal of planning to do a MMF where no one gets hurt or hurts your marriage. But I'd never say it was impossible. Always 2 sides to the coin. Not sure this is helping at all. Sorry. __________________ "Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain." Jodi Picoult |
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