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Default Jan 17, 2017 at 09:20 PM
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I get all my info from her.
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Default Jan 17, 2017 at 09:20 PM
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Counseling would help you.

Even if you get over this there will most likely be many more problems in your relationship,maybe a therapist can help you prevent them.
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Default Jan 17, 2017 at 09:20 PM
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I cant get it thru my head i remebrr onetime i seen oral sex in the movie my stomach started to hurt and i felt sick no lie.
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Default Jan 17, 2017 at 09:21 PM
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Thats the only thing that bothers me in tje relationship
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Default Jan 17, 2017 at 09:22 PM
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Yes,a therapist is definitely what you need.

Maybe what you are having a hard time with is oral in general,maybe it's not about her and what she did at all,maybe you yourself have some issues you need to work on,especially if seeing it in a movie made you sick.
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Default Jan 17, 2017 at 09:27 PM
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She cut my toenails she never cut they toenails.she still does and she massage my feet infront of her friends never done that to any of them.If girl isnt schooled by her dad she do things cuz she thinks it ok.Ima scare my daughter with herpes pictures so she only gives oral to her husband and her body to one man.Cuz it makes a man feel EVEN more powerful when finds a woman who hasnt been tampered with.
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Default Jan 17, 2017 at 09:31 PM
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Wow...

I was trying to help here,but really,'tampered with'?

What century are you living in?

Good luck with all this,you will need lots of luck keeping this woman.
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Default Jan 17, 2017 at 09:34 PM
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I no all this cuz she told her whole life
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Default Jan 17, 2017 at 09:43 PM
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Well maybe someone else will come along and help you or give you advice here.

You lost my help at 'tampered with'.
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Default Jan 17, 2017 at 10:07 PM
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Lmao why dont wanna help me anymore.it helps when i talk about it.She never bot them anything for there bday or xmas...she bought me many things on my bday and xmas even when i didnt get her gift on time.She had a guy who had kids she didnt get him anything for fathers day for me when fathers day came gifts i have a child by another woman.
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Default Jan 17, 2017 at 10:36 PM
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I have some issues aswel its not her its the oral .I jus wish this **** stop bothering me and get out my head.
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Default Jan 17, 2017 at 10:50 PM
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My mind is boggled over this whole mess , oral ? gift no gift ? She cut your toenails ???

Therapy ! You need it now.

I don't think your being realistic about how relationships work .... It's HER past.

Love her 100% or let her go find someone who will.

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Default Jan 18, 2017 at 08:29 AM
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If it were up to me, I would advise you to break up with her, from what you've posted its clear she deserves better.

PS. You were also tampered with, so you are in NO position to judge her, best get off your high horse before someone smacks you off...

PPS. I wont be posting in this thread again, I find the content of the posts way too shallow and judgmental to engage further, if my BF spoke this way about me, I would high five him in the face, with a chair...
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Default Jan 18, 2017 at 03:14 PM
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Culture? Religious beliefs? Arranged marriage ?

Maybe these questions will help us understand your problem(s)/issue(s)

Still can't understand the cutting of toenails ?? Are you not able too do it yourself ?

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Default Jan 18, 2017 at 08:09 PM
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She didn no what love was until she met me was her words not mine.three hugs in out of 700 days what love?She had two relationships on one hand she count how many kisses what love?she thought sex was love is what i think
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Default Jan 18, 2017 at 08:18 PM
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She jus told me a few months ago she gave oral b4 this was my first time hearing it. she felt peer preasure in one situation. It aint about gifts ladys real love is action affection many hugs and kisses unconditional love no matter happens .clipping a mans toenails is a clear sign she really loves this man.She has been very open with me.It a man thing some ladies wodn overstand this.
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Default Jan 18, 2017 at 08:24 PM
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Ladies trust me i want to get over this and i am..this is my first real relationship i have never gave a woman 100 percent only her other women only got onething from me.What women doesnt love affection and hugs and kisses everyday and massages for no reason not only jus for sex.
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Default Jan 18, 2017 at 08:59 PM
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She jus told me a few months ago she gave oral b4 this was my first time hearing it. she felt peer preasure in one situation. It aint about gifts ladys real love is action affection many hugs and kisses unconditional love no matter happens .clipping a mans toenails is a clear sign she really loves this man.She has been very open with me.It a man thing some ladies wodn overstand this.


Clipping a mans toenails is a clear sign she really loves him ?!!?! Are you shytting me ?

Is this a cultural thing ? Must be , care to share a little on your rituals / religion, etc

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Default Jan 18, 2017 at 09:21 PM
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Feet are the dirtest part of the body.Why didn she clip they toenails?
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Default Jan 18, 2017 at 09:24 PM
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When a woman clips a mans toenails she really really in love with him if a man stop kicking with his freinds and spends 85% of his time with you he really really loves you.
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